Will he think it's strange if I do?
2006-10-29 05:57:28 · 23 answers · asked by Rawr! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't speak for the guy in question, but I love it when girls approach me.
If you don't take action to pursue the things you want you will likely miss out.
I don't care what your mother said. Good things DON'T come to those who wait. The better maxim is "Fortune favors the bold."
Be Bold!
2006-10-29 06:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex left me because her feelings for me went away, and while I spent two years trying to move on, she dated other guys and forgot about me completely. Usually the pain isn't mutual after a breakup. She moved on quickly because she was already over me when she dumped me. I'm sorry that it happened to you, and I'll try to lend a hand. When I got dumped, I sat in the hole of darkness for a week or so, then crawled out and looked for some new things to do. The first gesture was symbolic. I cut all my hair off in mourning, just for the hell of it. I got a new job and worked a lot, and I bought a lot of used books and music. Mostly records, since I was broke as a joke. I wrote a lot of letters and revamped a lot of dying friendships. And chiefly, I broke contact with my ex. Boom, out of my life. That helped a lot. It's all about you now, not him, so if you don't want to be pulled back by a painful heart-wrenching "friendship," make it clear as crystal that you aren't interested. See what I'm saying? Do whatever you need to do to move on, and don't be talked out of it. Take no prisoners, and if a bridge looks good to burn, burn the ****** down. Good luck!
2016-05-22 05:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you make the first move or he does.
It's not strange these days, since women are becoming
more accepted in society in terms of their relationship with
men as equals. As for your second question, you will never
know if he think it's strange, unless you go for it before he does.
2006-10-29 06:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases yeah the guy is supposed to make the 1st move but if you like this guy enough then go for it and don't be shy about it b/c most guys like it when the girl does it 1st. So what do you have to lose.
2006-10-29 06:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move as a friend and then let him make the first move towards romance. for instance invite him to go out with you and a bunch of other friends... then see if he wants to do something another night with just the two of you. on the date with lots of friends pay a lot of attention to him and try to read how he feels about you. definitely flirt a lot!
2006-10-29 06:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one can make the first move. Personally I love it when the woman makes the first move. Esspecially if she goes for Second Base!
2006-10-29 06:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a girl i wouldnt make the first move since id be embarrassed if he didnt feel the same way. if the guy really liked you he would have done it by now. but some guys like it by the girls. if youre horny or just really madly in love give it a shot if youd like
2006-10-29 06:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's to shy u shoul but i think it's hotter when the guys make the first move that could be becous i'm shy but i'v made the first move once now we are in the best relashion ship ever
2006-10-29 06:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by Saidy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made the first move and I'm a girl as long as you go about it in a nice and non pushy manner than absolutley.
2006-10-29 06:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends!! some guys make the first move, but some guys are afraid of what we'll think when they make the first."like did i make my move to earlly?"stuuf like that so they get turned on when the grl makes the first move.
so go ahead grl, make the move if ur ready. good luck!!
2006-10-29 06:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋