I am only 11 and I dont want a bf and I have one and I dont know how to break up with him?? What can I do i just dont want to go out with him anymore!!!1
2006-10-29 05:51:42 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pick up BARBIE and start playing with her!!!
how did you get a boyfriend at 11??? where are your parents??!!
tell him you are too young, which YOU ARE!!
2006-10-29 05:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all i'm 17 and just started dating at 16. This should not be a problem in an 11 yr olds life. Just break up with them. As young as you are the next guy that you'll probably like is just a week away. Don't be hung up on boy problems at such a young age. Play sports, join clubs, go to church, do something other then worrying about boys at eleven. YOu have plenty of time for that later. Besides..your making me feel old!!! JK! good luck w/ ur problem
2006-10-29 05:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound SO WISE for an 11 year old. You are SO RIGHT you don't need a boyfriend at this time in your life. What I would do is just tell someone else to break up with him for you. Just tell a friend to tell him. Or write him a note.
2006-10-29 05:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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It is very difficult to break-up, because everyone will feel the loss of a broken relationship.
Realize, there is nothing wrong with dating, or choosing to not date someone.
YOU are entitled to do what ever YOU want for you. Don't ever forget that.
To break-up in a kind way
tell him that your relationship has had some really good times that you enjoyed;
but right now, you feel different than before.
(This way you are putting the onis on yourself, so he won't feel demeaned).
Go on to tell him, that you just think you are way too young to be in a committed relationship with anyone.
You like him, but don't want to be going steady with him, and want to remain just friends.
Tell him that you understand he might get angry with you, and that's ok, if he needs to,
but that you still want to be "friends".
This is the best way to handle his feelings and yours.
Good luck
stw
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2006-10-29 05:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. 11 is too young to have a bf and he should kno that. Tell him that you are not ready for something like this, or that you feel u are too young. It shouldnt be too difficult! He'll understand...i hope he isn't took much older than you! Good Luck!
2006-10-29 05:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only 11 and already have a boyfriend that you are going out with? Now you don't want to go out with him anymore? My goodness what a problem you have for such a young age! When I was your age, my problem was what my paper doll should wear?My advice to you is ask your Mama!
2006-10-29 05:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might think that you are really mature to have a relationship with a boy, right? Well how was it that you started that relationship in the first place, you should just tell him straight to his face and end it. Girls like you should be concentrated in school rather than boys, your education is more inportant than little immature boys right now. The time will come for you to date, don't rush it, you are still to young.
2006-10-29 05:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that hes really nice but that u see him as more of a friend.He will respect u for not being rude about it which a lot of people are.Good luck.If u get any answers like "Omg.Ur too young & u need to get off Yahoo Answers cuz ur too young & immature." report the person.Lol.It gets annoying when people act like just cuz ur young u dont have a brain.
2006-10-29 06:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with this guy and tell him you don't want to go out with him anymore. He may be disappointed, but for his sake and for your own it's always better to state the facts (and your feeling you don't want a boyfriend yet is a fact!) than to lie about it or to be vague trying to evade a problem. Be upfront about your feelings, they are neither good or bad, they are just the way you feel.... i know it's not easy sometimes to tell someone something they will be disappointed about, but start practicing honesty now, it will help you in your future!
Good luck, kiddo!
Love from Holland
2006-10-29 06:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by icqanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you're feeling like you're too young for this kind of a relatonship and that maybe when you're older you can get back together... I'm sure he'll understand, and if he doesn't it's a good thing you broke up with the jerk.
2006-10-29 05:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 11.. you shouldn't of gotten a boyfriend in the first place. break up with him and do things of your own age. Where are your parents? You should be grounded
2006-10-29 05:54:02 · answer #11 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋