2006-10-29 05:47:01 · 35 answers · asked by geniune 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no..... you are sub-consiously trying to sabotage the relationship
2006-10-29 05:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem too and that doesnt mean ur a slut. Ur relationship is lacking of soooo many things that u think ull get it somewhere else, im not justifying the fact that just because u feel that way ur excused to cheat, What u should do is move on with ur life and stay single 4 a while and remember if he doesnt have a clue of ur bedhopping by any means DONT admit anything, that would be too selfish of u to do, why lower his self esteem that way, his happy without knowing ,why prive him from peace of mind. I think u possibly love him and u know what?things arent gonna change in the relationship so figure out what u really want ,an unhappy bored relationship? or an exiting one with someonelse. Commitment is something u choose to do and not everyone makes that decission. Seek somehelp by the way.
2006-10-29 06:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the old saying "you only hurt the ones you love" comes in handy here perhaps, but really, what's with being a cheater? if you don't want to be with him, don't string him along, that's mean. so is cheating. more than five times? think about that! it's five times you could have been with "him" instead. maybe you are wanting to make him jealous, but my guess is you are insecure and know the relationship won't work in the long run, so maybe you are doing this to sabotage your relationship, or you just want to make him jealous, see how far you can push him, which by the way is mean too......grow up.
2006-10-29 05:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart it is never okay to cheat, just so you know. It is possible that you do still love him, just not in the way it use to be. In my experience if you can't stay faithful to him, you shouldn't be with him. He'll be hurt more in the long run if you stay and continue cheating on him. I hope you find the answer to your question. Take a little advice the answer to your ? is in your heart, take a moment an listen you will find the answer to what it is you seek.
2006-10-29 05:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by smile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough to respect him.If u keep cheating over & over I think its time to call it quits on the guy ur cheating on cuz ur only hurting him.
2006-10-29 06:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love for some people and fidelity do not always go in hand, though respect and love are tied up pretty closely...
But you should bear in mind that perhaps what you feel for him is not what you should if you intend to make a serious go of it.
If you had respect for him, you would not do what you are doing to him.
2006-10-29 05:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...If you did love him you wouldn't cheat more than five times or at all for that matter!
2006-10-29 05:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be, maybe a sign that something is wrong too. I think honesty is the best policy. Sometimes communication chanels must be open or not even honesty gets through.
Just go by how would feel if it all got printed on tomorrows newspaper. Then do what you think is right. "Warren Buffett"
loosely quoted
2006-10-29 05:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say give it up hon cause you do not really love him deep down and cut him loose to find someone who will...a hard truth but sometimes the hardest thing to hear is the truth!
2006-10-29 05:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are confusing Passion with Love. Are you sure you love your Boyfriend? or Just Passionate like you were with the others?
2006-10-29 05:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by serge_online_now 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Once was enough! and that never should have happened! What do you know about love?At the rate you are going, tells me you just care about yourself and your own feelings1
2006-10-29 05:52:08 · answer #11 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋