I'm freaked out by her. Her name is Karen and well I meat her this year. Only I found out she likes me like crazy, but I don't. I like someone else. Not only that, but I have told her so many times before that I don't like her at all. I got suspended for fighting and I can't go back to school till Halloween. My sister told me that the day I got suspended Karen found out and went around creating a rumor that I got with her. She keeps calling and coming to my house asking for me, but my mom keeps telling her I'm grounded and she seems to ignore the fact that I am. I told her a million times that I don't like her and that I would like it if we where just friends. Just that I don't want to be her friend anymore because she does not seem to listen at all at what I say, plus she's annoying. How can I get her to stop bugging me and calling me? Also how can I stop the rumor that she started when I go back to school? I don't want people thinking I'm with her. Thanks everyone
2006-10-29 05:45:01 · 15 answers · asked by what_it_do? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She can't help who she is attracted to, and right now that would be you in a big way. but, she can manage how she deals with that attraction. Maybe your mom needs to call her mom and tell her that her daughter is out of control and spreading rumors. If you have already told her clearly and calmly that you are not interested, you've done what you can do.
2006-10-29 05:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply speak the truth. Just calm her down and look her straight in the eye. And tell her nicely " Karen i would really appreciate it if you would stop tying to get a hold of me. I'm sorry i don't feel the same way about you . i would like to be friends with you but you actually have to listen to what i say or don't come around me. When you bug me it makes me not want to be around you. do you understand?" and then work something out. Simply tell everyone politely that you are not with Karen. and Remember someday you may be the one head over heels and the girl might think your a freak.
2006-10-29 05:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by pondering_1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say "Im tired of u bugging me.This may be cruel but ur cruel for not listening the 1st billion times I told u I dont like u.Plus I dont even wanna be ur friend n/e more.U cant understand that being friends means that u dont bug the other person about dating u.Leave me alone or Ill find some way to MAKE u leave me alone.By the way if u dont end the rumor about me & u Ill start another even embarrissing 1 about u." I hope this helped.This is just what Id do if some guy couldnt take the hint.
2006-10-29 06:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ooooo...isn't High School so awesome!
High School can be tough, and be filled with looney people, like this girl Karen of yours. Your best bet when you go back to school, is to begin clearing up the rumor, first, you ask someone whom is popular, rumors can go around fast if they begin with the popular people, just ask "Hey, what's this rumor about me that I heard is going around", and sound all pist about it too...then, hook up with some girl, so this chick gets the point, because as long as you are single, she is going to be after you.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-29 05:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since she ignored everything you say and ignoring your feelings, she obviously is extremely selfish about this. Make it straight, a relationship only becomes a relationship when BOTH sides are liking it. If she's going around making rumors and acting like she's your girlfriend, she's only caring about her feelings. Don't feel sorry for her, make it straight to her and everyone else
2006-10-29 05:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd straight up tell her and wouldn't care how loud I got either I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I would have liked to be friends but you ruined that by stalking me I do not like you and never will please understaind that! oh and to stop the rumor simple tell them that she's a ******* pyshco stalker who you don't like and if that don't work be gutsy and kiss the girl you do like infront of everyone haha *smirks* I'm evil but oh well haha
2006-10-29 05:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds really troubled. Tell her in no uncertain terms that you have a girlfriend and are not interested in her. Tell her to leave you alone and stop spreading rumors. Tell her if she keeps it up, you will get a restraining order against her.
2006-10-29 05:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, get a restraining order before she hurts someone! Lol jk. But you should seriously tell your principle or something, they can make sure she doesn't bother you. If she bothers you, pretend you don't speak english or something (lol again). Or you can pretend you have never met her before and be like "Do I know you?" or if you want to be nice about it, just tell her "You're really annoying me. Stop it, because I don't like you!" You can also be mean and say "Back off, creep!" every time she talks to you. Good luck!
2006-10-29 05:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh, something like that happened to me, only the girl wasn't so persistent. Let it blow over. It will take some time but what can you do.
And pray she's not that type that will burn your house or abduct you when she realizes how things are.
2006-10-29 05:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by possum 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to your court house and get a restraining order from her.. she can't legally go within 5 miles of you.
Show your friends this court order.
2006-10-29 05:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋