i was wondering if you caould help me, i just dont understand why i cant find a nice girl i meet them, we hang out then i get ignored, i think im a good guy but girls only go for a s s h o l e s, i was told once that girls choose jerks because they exspect to get treated bad.but if a nice guy hurts them its that much harded to get over. but i cant even get a chance. and this really blows soo any help would be great.
2006-10-29 05:39:35 · 11 answers · asked by Rusty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont listen to the first..... answerer. but dont worry about it. you'll find her when the time comes. i was never looking for a boyfriend and i ended up with my bestfriend. so youre kinda wrong. not all girls go for *******. one of my previous boyfriends was like that. he even hit me. but like i said. dont worry about it. youll find her. my boyfriend is one of the nicest guys ive ever met. and i love him dearly. shell come to you, or youll find her somewhere like in a coffee shop or a workplace or something.
2006-10-29 05:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are so many parts to this, how do you approach the person and how do you act with them? Are you comfortable in your own skin or are you nervous and unsure?
In a blind kind of answer, because there are so many unknowns; you should look for girls with some of the same interest and values as you, i.e., if you like music, basketball, etc. look for girls in that environment, rather than looking in all the wrong places. You will find that you don't have to work so hard when it comes to establishing a friendship (which is the most important base for a relationship) because you start with a common interest. Don't bad mouth others if you can, it really makes you small when you are doing that.
Back it up, evaluate yourself and how you approach girls, being real honest.
You sound to be very bright, very real and very caring, these are all exceptional things to bring to a relationship.
2006-10-29 05:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, women do not expect to get treated badly, nor do we want to be treated badly. True there are many women who find that whole "bad boy" image appealing, but there are also plenty of women who like nice guys. There is such a thing as being too nice though, a lot of women like to feel secure when they are with a man, even the most independent ones. Don't dwell to much on it being you, think more along the lines of it's their loss and with luck some day you'll meet the right woman who likes you for who you are. Don't change who you are for anyone, ever.
2006-10-29 06:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean u can't find a nice girl out there? I figured this would be a poor girl saying she couldn't find a nice GUY out there.There are more nice women out there than there ever will be guys.I think u need to give women a chance urself,& u need to stop expecting for a nice girl to just pop up in the woodworks.Don't expect women to just come & be ur g/f.Flirt & be the life of the party & then u may not find urself being ignored.
2006-10-29 07:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude just calm down I'm sure you'll find the right girl for you and if your a nice guy then this shouldn't be a problem. All you have to do is just be yourself and you don't have to try hard.
2006-10-29 05:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think the reason that women like bad guys is because bad guys come with a certain amount of drama. everyone like a little drama, if they want to admit it or not. no one wants a boring relationship and nice guys tend to be boring.
2006-10-29 05:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your being too nice.... and we don't like that because that make us feel like your a whimp. Be more aggressive with the next girl and see where it take you.
2006-10-29 05:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by mrspolish56 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you're a sweetheart and any girl would be crazy to choose some a.ss. hol.e over you. You'll find her.
2006-10-29 05:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
patience... the right girl will come in time. My grandad never dated and one day he walking down the street and just found his soul mate. my grandmommy. she was wonderful. just patience.
2006-10-29 05:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Juice 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take a time or look on yourself. Who you can see in their eyes.
2006-10-29 05:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋