he is my old teacher i had him like a year ago and well my two best friends were just being stupid and came up with they idea to tell him im obessed with him when im not, I just think he's alright as a teacher hes cute n everything but i dont want nothing to deal with it and anyway last year when they told him he's been acting weirder to me then he did before, like he's got so close where he almost touched my butt, and that he's started down my shirt a couple of times and i have caught him and when I do he just walks away and then one day at practice he had half the team in his room explaining something while the rest was in the gym and well i had to go in their to ask him something and later when practice was over a bunch of people who were in his class said he was staring at my butt and that scared me!!!, what should I do i Really dont want him to get fired because he's reall a nice n great teacher and coach but I'd wish he would stop.....WHAT SHOULD I DO????
2006-10-29 05:38:14 · 13 answers · asked by Midget14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have HAD ENOUGH! the stupidity must STOP!
you need to have yourself spayed/neutered and remove yourself from the gene pool...i do believe you have pooped in it and IT STINKS!!
thank you for playing, try again tomorrow!!
2006-10-29 05:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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He "almost" touched your butt?
Hon, almost only counts in horseshoes
and gernades.
He DID NOT touch, and looking is for free.
He's a man, and he will look. Especially if there is something that appeals to them.
Your friends made you even more appealing by telling him you are interested in him.
All of this is only about a "sexual attraction"
It is NOT about love, or anything else.
Is is not perverted to "appreciate" how pretty a young girl/woman looks.
I am a grandmom. My grand daughter suddenly changed this year and she is a raving beauty. I can "see" this, and appreciate her beauty, and size 0-1 figure. She should be a model, except she's only 5'6"
The best things that you can do, is get a reality check, if you are attractive, you will be oggled. period.
When you don't want any one's "special" attention, do not make yourself "available" as much as possible...and the rest of the time clearly "ignore" it. Brush it off like water off a ducks back.
Take this from a Grandmom. Being physically attractive does not make you beautiful even a little bit. If you want to be truly beautiful, so that people see what is inside you the most,
then start working on "who" you are
and practice fairness, kindness, bravery, NOT-a-gossip, think only the best of others (even when they don't deserve it);
make the BEST of every situation, and when others are being ugly= be a leader and always point out the good side of things.
Realize every human being is flawed.
You are too in some way.
Every human being has weaknesses.
You do too.
Try to be your best, and forgive yourself for where you are not your best, and try not to repeat your mistakes.
If you want a friend, first BE a friend.
If you are depressed, get your mind off yourself and help someone else in need.
Try to see all that your parents sacrifice to give you nice things.
Try to see the good in all people
and all things.
Make things you do, things you will be proud to admit to.
Live-Laugh-Love
and don't forget to love yourself first (in the right way).
stw
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2006-10-29 05:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay as far away from him as possible...especially if you feel he is coming on to you.
Yet, don't think so highly of yourself to believe that he IS staring at your butt or staring down your shirt. You've obviously told your friends about this so everyone is looking for him to do something. Kids love drama and this is right up their alley.
He may totally not have one single thought of you beyond the fact that you are one of his students. Should his career be ruined because you aren't sure if he's a pervert? Imagine that happening to your dad, or one of your brothers. Don't jump to conclusions unless you know for sure.
Now, if he ever does try something then sound the alarm and tell on him immediately.
And your so called friends did you and this teacher no favors by telling him you were obsessed with him. I'm sure that put him on the spot, as it did you too. But, you can't undo what they did.
However, you can make things better by being polite to the teacher, but serious at the same time so he knows YOU aren't coming on to him. If you are all smiley or somewhat flirty with him, he may still be wondering about what your friends told him. And if you are getting too close to him, well, you have no reason to do that. I'm wondering how you managed to get so close to him that he almost touched your butt?
Just stay away from him. Don't go into his office. Don't have anything to do with him. Period. You will be doing both of you a favor.
2006-10-29 06:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by gailfrances 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our gym teacher has gotten fired from like four different schools for being perverted & then he came here & hes already been said to have put cameras in the girls locker room & he got suspended from the school for touching a 6th grader & weve got another guidance counselor that touched some girl & her mom made her switch schools for it i know he may seem like a nice teacher but nice or not hes a perverted teacher that needs to be fired dont allow this to go on knowing that something bad could go on i dont know how you can sit there & call him nice when hes staring @ your butt & god knows what else you need to tell the principle
2006-10-29 07:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop doing what he's doing, or he will be in a lot of
trouble. Touching your butt and staring down your shirt and
staring at your butt is definitely beyond what is acceptable behavior. Give him a warning and say to him if he does it again, you will tell the police, your parents, the principal, vice-principal,
or whoever else needs to know about it. Your two friends should
tell him that it was a joke, and you're not really obsessed with him.
2006-10-29 05:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like these friends of yours are not only playing with the teachers mind but yours as well. If this makes you uncomfortable, confront the teacher yourself at school in an area where you feel safe...you could even bring those said friends of yours along with you for them to tell him that what they said was not true. If it continues from there then tell the principal what is going on...
2006-10-29 05:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy....!!! This sounds dangerous for a teacher to act like that!! Talk to him in private, NOT far though from safety,to tell him you have caught his bad behavior and u wishn him to knock it off. What do your friends saY? You are scared girl!! U should tell someone in authority about him!! What if your not the only one ???
2006-10-29 05:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's sexual harassment! Even if he does get fired, you should tell someone, because you could potentually get in some serious trouble... I hate to say it, but RAPE!
2006-10-29 05:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by It's just me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents maybe they can get you into a different class. Good luck.
2006-10-29 05:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to him, "do ya wanna do it?" if he says, "sure" then he's a pervert and u shouldnt feel bad about him gettin fired after u tell the person who's in charge or whatev
2006-10-29 05:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋