Should you try to make them love you, or give them up?
2006-10-29 05:25:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is what you should do: Ask yourself.............why do I love someone who isn't willing,capable,not interested in loving me back? Why am I pining over someone who clearing isn't interested in me?
Read the book, "He's just not that into you" and find out what kind of hole you are trying to replace with loving someone who isn't interested.
2006-10-29 05:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be their friend, but get over it. If your love for them is that real, you may always love them to some degree, even if it feels you move on and get over it at some point to have an actual relationship with someone who loves you back. Maybe someday he'll realize he loved you too, and it just took hiim so long... which is why by being his friend, you're still in his life in case he has a mental turn-around.
2006-10-29 05:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a person love you. It took me a long time for my now husband to open up to me, you just have to be patient and honest, and your mate will eventually come around. However, after a while, if there's no progression, then definitely give because the relationship isn't going anywhere.
2006-10-29 05:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by mrspolish56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you, they have to want to love you as well. Give it some time maybe this person will come around.
2006-10-29 05:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by P K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really dont get whats going on, ask yourself questions. Are we in a relationship right now or just friends? Am i showing value and commitment to the relationship? How is my physical appearence (fashion, perfume, etc) how is my personality? If the person isnt into you like you are into them, then they probably dont know you very well. Talk to them about how you feel and maybe they will understand. If the person is a "jerk", just move on period.
2006-10-29 05:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by coolchess123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not try intentionally but maybe he would love you if he will.
The point is that love is an emotion that doesnt need to be reciprocated. U have to tell him u love him if not frankly then in simple ways but bear in mind its not necessary to possess him or his love interest to be in love with him.
That way u wont be hurt if u get rejected.
2006-10-29 05:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by dinqey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a couple of attempts to win them over without being to forceful, may she is just playing hard to get. if it doesnt work then give up without making yourself feel bad or depressed and know that there is someone out there for u.
2006-10-29 05:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by animagus85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force love from someone, maybe they do love you but show it in different ways than the way you are expecting?
2006-10-29 05:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by BalloonPumper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda curious as to how you would "make" them love you....do you know some kind of wrestling move that the rest of us don't know?
2006-10-29 05:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them up baby....You can't "make" someone love you...They have to want to.
2006-10-29 05:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋