me and my now x-boyfriend started going out since 2 weeks ago. we broke up the day before our 1 week because too many people knew about it and it messed up. so the day after, we hooked up again but in secret. then, 2 days later, it was my halloween party. we got dared to kiss and we did. but it took a while for me to kiss him, because well...i was shy. i then heard he asked out my BEST FRIEND! i asked him if it was true and he said yes. I really started crying. i asked him why and he said that because i didnt take the whole realtionship seriously!! im still sad over it. i broke up with him because of that. i still like him, and he told me he still likes me. (since 4 years we have liked eachother) and he asked me that he still wants to go out with me but only when i was able to be serious. i said, i dont know because he really hurt me.
SO THE QUESTION IS:
should i go back out with him?
2006-10-29 05:23:36 · 21 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart, he cheated on you and from my past experiences someone who cheat is very likely to cheat again and again. And I know that turning him down is really going to hurt you emotionally for a while but in the end you will be stronger and you will have feel better about yourself. Trust me I have been cheated on and so have my friends. I went out with this one guy that had cheated on a girl that I knew and then he cheated on me. They're players and thats that. They won't change. But this is your love life so who am I to tell you what to do? Just think about it for a little while, sleep on it a couple nights. Then talk to him.
2006-10-29 05:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by KelseyKatastrophe. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say It depends on how you feel because i was in a similar sistuation.....if you still like him yes but he did you so wrong so you have to think of that too hopefully you and him matured and can handle being in a serious relationship now i didn't take that route and keep wondering to this day what would of happend if i did. Sometimes you need to let go if its ment to be then you know..... mine was sweet but he's an @#$
2006-10-29 13:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by atlluv06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He accuses you of not being serious and then promptly turns around and asks your best friend out?? That doesn't make sense. It sounds like he's not serious but he's projecting that on to you as if you are to blame. He doesn't sounds trustworthy. He does sound manipulative and seems to be playing mind games with you. Don't go back out with him. Find someone who's down to earth, real and treats you well. You deserve better!
2006-10-29 13:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what's wrong with people knowing that you're going out? It appears that he wants to date various people and you should too. It sounds as if you are very young. You have years of dating experience in your future. Date a variety of people so you know the one and only when it happens.
2006-10-29 13:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, he actually had the balls to ask your best friend out. That is very disrespectful. And if he really had true feelings for you why would he do that. Sounds to me like he is a player.
2006-10-29 13:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop letting other people in this case a guy cause you to be happy or not happy.
You should be in control of your life....this stuff is unnecessary drama.
A boyfriend sometimes makes life a bit more fun.....but when he makes you unhappy let it go....it's never worth it.
2006-10-29 13:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god no. What is wrong with you? Start studying you're going down the wrong path... read what you wrote and pretend it wasn't you that wrote that. What comes to mind? DRAMA QUEEN. Now study your little *** off and become a doctor!!!
2006-10-29 13:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Christine4tw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y'all only went out for a week? move on he's a jerk if he asked out your best friend...and she's not a best friend if she said yes. move on and find a better guy. good luck sweetie
2006-10-29 13:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, but deep down, I'm a romantic. But keep in mind, if this happens again, there really should be no third chances.
2006-10-29 13:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow you sound just like my girl that just happened 2 me exactly a couple o days ago is youre name jen?
2006-10-29 13:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by americanmuscle1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋