i broke up with my bf ...like eight months ago,and now he's single( after hooking up with atleast a dozen girls) and is showing inclination to be friends with me. i don't want to!!! coz he's not bad when u get to know him, but he's forever jumping frm one girl to the other n i totally hate it.plus i don't think my current bf will like the idea. how can i tell my ex bf tht i want to stay away frm him!?!
he's kinda stalking me now n its bloody irritating xx
2006-10-29 05:21:51 · 10 answers · asked by lil.princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he had his chance and he blew it. That you have moved on and are in a new relationship and that it wouldn't be fair to your current boyfriend to be hanging with an ex.
2006-10-29 05:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off stalking is a felony... but just be bold, stand up for what you believe in, tell him your with someone who makes you happy and you love your boy friend very much. If he can't understand, there are legal ways to keep him from stalking you. You can get a no contact order from your court in your town, or, you can file a legal complaint with your local police and tell them he is stalking you. They in return will issue him a verbal warning, telling him, further contact will result in arrest. If your happy with your current boyfriend, then you shouldn't have any trouble protecting what you 2 have together.
2006-10-29 13:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by LEO H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want him to STAY away from you. Let your boyfriend know whats going on too. Perhaps if you AND your currant Boyfriend also says "She said leave her alone. So stay away from her" He'll get the hint.
If he's starting to stalk you... and telling him to back off (you don't want to even be friends with him), isn't enough, you may NEED to get a restring order. Or at least threaten him with one...
Tell him if he doesn't leave you alone, he will leave you with no choice but get a restringing order. You don't WANT to but, if he can't respect you enough to stay away from you, then he really leaves you with no choice.
And if the threat doesn't have an effect you will need to go through with it and get one. But hopefully, you telling him that you've moved on and, you really don't even want to be friends will be enough.
Tree~
2006-10-29 13:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tree S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be friends with him and tell him you do not like the way he jumps from girl to girl...you have the power darlin...just because he is acting all nice now does not mean you have to respond...
2006-10-29 13:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you obviously don't care about his feelings, then just come out and tell him that you have moved on, you don't want to be friends, and to leave you alone. He can't do anything but accept that.
2006-10-29 13:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by mrspolish56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from your ex since you are now in a relationship with another guy....And if your ex is stalking you ,,,,you need to report him to the police.....
2006-10-29 13:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just explain to him that he had his chance to be with you and blew it, tell him that since you 2 aren't together any more that you don't want to be friends and that you prefer him to keep away from you at all costs
2006-10-29 13:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell him to back off. let your b/f know about the situation, and see what he says about it.
2006-10-29 13:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes once it is over it is over no need to give a second thought.
2006-10-29 13:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by ravishr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a big boyfriend who will scare him away.
2006-10-29 13:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋