away from other women ? He loves women a little too much. He is very handsome and charming. This is true. He is 36 now and he had about 200 women a year for 13 years. How can I get him to the altar ? We both do not have any stds and please note that he was badly abused and sexually abused as a child. We are Americans.
2006-10-29 05:18:29 · 11 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it was about 200 a year give or take .
2006-10-29 05:52:02 · update #1
The real situation is that your b/f needs help. He needs therapy. The sexual abuse he went through as a child has taken a toll on him. There is an actual thing called a sexual addiction and might have it. Also he may be into dominatrix. Either way plaese seek therapy for your b/f.
2006-10-29 06:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hah...what a joke...2300 women....it's not even possible...didn't he attend school...when was all of this alleged sex occurring...whose house...how did he have access to over 1000 women/girls before turning 18. Do you realize how ridiculous you sound? If he's actually feeding you this B.S. and you're buying it sounds like you've got more problems than keeping his attention. If this is an actual 'real' post and you really believe that he's telling you the truth...ask him where these girls/women came from. Where he had sex with them, how it possible. Think about your own life...do you actually know 1000 people? Especially from the ages of 13-18...Then how many of those were of the opposite sex...then how many of those would have sex with you. Come on don't be so stupid
2006-10-29 13:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that he is a christian if he is allowing his flesh to take control. If I were you I would separate from him until he gives God that area of his life because otherwise you will be hurt all the time. I would tell him that God said for him to present his body as a living sacrifice unto Him Romans 12:1-2. It doesn't matter if he was abused when he was younger. If he made Jesus Christ the Lord of his life he should be allowing the Lord to heal those wombs that he has been hurt. Just know that you too need healing from what has happen in you two life. Restrange your self from sexual sins with him before you do get stds or aids. God desires us to live Holy lives not unholy lives. God bless you.
2006-10-29 14:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought sexually abused people are those who are afraid of the thing called sex, ! i think he will be stable now since he has tasted the waters,he is left with no curiosity for other women since i can say say from his past he can tell what a woman's Virgina looks like just by looking at her eyes. so don't worry you are out of the danger zone.but iam a bit worried about your sexual life cause i don't think the guy still got a penis. it could have eroded or dissolved in any of the thousand of woman particularly black cause that kind is freaky.good luck
2006-10-29 13:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he say he was a born again Christian because he knows how important that means to you? If he is addicted to sex then he could be telling you only what you want to hear. Wish him well, tell him not to continue on this "victim" path that he is on. Christian or not, we are all flawed humans. Would you want your daughter dating a man like this? If you say "no" then why are YOU dating him? Read the book..........."women who love too much" and pray. This shall set you free.
2006-10-29 13:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by WDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you say 2200 women, now its 2300. 200 women in 13 yrs comes to 2600. Your comp has a calculator. Use it.
2006-10-29 13:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does it matter if you're american? You have two options: he either really likes you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, or he wants to go around capitzing about with other women. It sounds though as if he may be a tough one to bring over to your side though, so I can't say like "be yourself" and crap like that. Most likely you should just let him go. And again, what does being american have to do with it?
2006-10-29 13:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Paul W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You started with 2200, now your at 2300. By this evening you should be at around 10,000.
2006-10-29 13:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Pencil 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want a serious answer next time try asking a real question.
2006-10-29 13:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be careful. i was in a similsr situation before
2006-10-29 13:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋