I started talking with this person online and we got pretty close and pretty heavy. We also talk by phone but quite less coz overseas phone calls are quite expensive. Now he makes me feel so special and he treats me so well. and believe me he is the sweetest and most romantic guy ud ever meet. But last time we talked he sounded very tired and kinda sickly i asked if he was ok he said yeah. Then we talked via txt during teh weekend but on the sunday he tells me he is in the hospital getting treated for high fever. Monday i call and his bro answers saying he has severe jaundice caused by hepa a. and he needs to be shifted to the us. he is in india btw. and we have no communication at all anymore. his bro says he doesnt know when will he be back.
My question is should i wait for him? or should i move on? coz i really love him with all my heart and he says he loves me too.
btw we have no commitment...
im so sorry this is so long but i need ur help...
2006-10-29 05:08:26 · 13 answers · asked by dinqey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw my heart says ill wait for him... but my sis says he is playing with me... huhuhuhuhu
there is no proof of that or otherwise...
2006-10-29 05:11:47 · update #1
we have no commitment i repeat... coz we agreed that we would meet first before we will commit in a relationship...
p.s. i cant have local boyfriends coz of strict parents, and cultural and ethnical differences that cudnt be ignored
2006-10-29 05:25:37 · update #2
I am sorry, but I smell a rat. And he is not the most romantic guy you have ever met...you have never met the man.
You are in love with a electronic projection of an individual not an individual. Be very careful. Many a person have found themselves emotionally rapped because they fell in love with a E-persona and soon destroyed by the Actual person.
2006-10-29 05:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by silverback487 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Finding a new friend overseas and creating a relationship by ONLY phone/email/letters contact is nothing new, however it falls under the same pretences as when women write letters to incarcerated men. We can paint quite a picture of ourselves when we never meet someone face to face. We can lie, we can charm, we can create a life that we may wish we have, in order to impress the other person. Since the other person has no way to verify any of it, they have to believe what is said is the truth.
For some reason people who engage in these types of relationships are looking for something that is lacking in their own life. Have a look at yourself and try to figure out why you need to find love internationally.
2006-10-29 05:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know if you should wait for him or move on? It's great that you love him, but how much do you know about him? You're putting all your hopes on a person you haven't seen before, but you could be missing out on someone else that lives in your same city. I think that you should date people especially since there has been no commitment made and hopefully you'll hear from this guy soon.
2006-10-29 05:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online romances are ambiguous at best. I find it unlikely that two people can love each other without meeting. So many people lie online to make themselves better, nicer looking, to hide a wife and family, etc. If you saw Dateline you would be shocked at the married with children guys, doctors, rabbis and assorted other men, going to a sexual meeting with who they thought was a 13 year old girl. You must have a lot going for you so move on and find a local romance.
2006-10-29 05:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We don't know what is happening so what I would do is pray and ask God for directions. Sometimes those on lines relationships are just a play thing with some. So if I was you I would seek God and let Him tell me what to do. While you are waiting on God for an answer allow Him to heal you and you get to know Him for He is a guide to the guidless. God bless you.
2006-10-29 05:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortuneately he'll show when he shows and there is seemingly no timetable on this. Things just look a little fishy to me, but by nature I'm cynical. I'd maintain contact with the brother to find out if and when he's returning.
2006-10-29 05:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dingey, you probably do not want to hear this, but some people will say and do anything to get into the US. How you can possibly say you love someone you have never seen boggles the imagination. He could be anyone, a fifty year old man pretending to be young and handsome. Get yourself a face-to-face boyfriend locally who you can get to know, warts and all.......
2006-10-29 05:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes, keep in contact with him. you should call his brother back and ask him what hospital hes staying at, maybe you can call him at the hospital. im sure he would love for you to call him. he probably misses you just as much. dont lose contact with him if you really love him, he needs you most right now.
2006-10-29 05:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him, wait for him. If you think you can find a more commited, or nicer man for you to love, then move on. Do what feels right.
2006-10-29 05:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by AdviceGuy399 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2006-10-29 05:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋