I am 19 years old. I have dated a total of like 30 to 40 guys since I was 12. All of which were no longer than 4 months. I am tired of the short term relationships. I want something that will last. I have been single now for a year because all the guys I meet I dont think are good enough. I could have had atleast 3 boyfriends in the last year but I chose not too cuz I want a long term. Sister thinks I am beign picky and that I should date any guy who comes my way since I am still YOUNG. I think that I should look for Mr. Right. What should I do? Confused about love.
2006-10-29 05:06:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your sister. You are young and what you think is Mr. Right today may not be Mr. Right in 5 years. I know you think you know exactly what you want, but what you want changes based off what you have seen and experienced. So the only real way to know what you want in Mr. Right is to date more and more without looking for Mr. Right.
So, No, you shouldn't be looking for Mr. Right. You should be experiencing life and learning more about yourself, what makes you happy and what is out there in the world.
2006-10-29 05:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you want a relationship, but this isn't a race so slow down. Have some fun by yourself for a while because when a good relationship comes along, you'll be able to come into the relationship as an individual and not as a person trying to complete themselves with a relationship. Besides, I don't think you should chase down a relationship because you see the garbage that method brought you so let him come to you.
2006-10-29 13:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hold on missy
dont worry there wont be a run out of men to date
haha
but for the moment do school, and experiment
that is the best part about life
you dont want to end up jobless with like 10 kids
so enjoy life when you still got it going
:)
okies?
and look at it this way
more years of freedom
once you are tied down
its hard to get out
trust me
you want to stay free as much as you can
then when you think you had enough
the you can settle
:)
2006-10-29 13:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by MightyHyphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 is way too young to be thinking about Mr Right if he even exists (which I doubt) You are setting the guy up for failure or you for disappointment if you believe there is a Mr. Right out there...There are some awesome guys and some you will get along with better than others...I think it is more who fits you, your life and personality the most...Mr (and Ms) Right is a myth...besides you have a lot of time...enjoy life and accept and feel good about yourself whether you are with someone or not...you have been doing a lot of scrambling and searching in a very short period of time...relax, be yourself, slow downnnnn!
2006-10-29 13:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30-40 guys? Man...slow down!! You're right...you are young! Have some single time. Go out with friends. You'll have enough time later on to spend with "Mr. Right".
2006-10-29 13:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there's nothing such as Mr.Right so don't waste your time! but anyway try to be friends with as many people as you can and not necessarily having a romantic relationship. This will build up your social behavior and if you do meet a Mr.Right someday you know how to act and what to do and you would be much more experienced.
2006-10-29 13:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by white rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there is no such thing as "Mr. Right". Theres always going to be arguing and problems with any relationship. You just need to pick guys whose problems dont bother you. It really helps and it takes off the mindset of the perfect guy or girl.
Good Luck!
2006-10-29 13:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by BJGPP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well… my dear I was in a similar situation I was dating like crazy in my early teens and now I’m 19 just like you, and I think I find my Mr. right and I’ve learn how to settle down and enjoy life with my bf ï don’t know if it will work for you.
2006-10-29 13:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by enelra1411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear
THE TRUTH OF LIFE is:
there is never a perfect moment, a perfect day, a perfect time....nor even a perfect person!......we make the best out of every imperfections!
19 is just the age u do what u need to in life ......u will find someone sensible if u accept the impefections in him and u fill him to make him perfect just for u!
take care
love
rg
2006-10-29 13:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by rg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at your self in the mirror and then think what'd u see around u. Then u JUST HAVE to WAIT for your "long-term" love to come. Love won't last long if u keep searching for it and u don't know what'd u have. Don't look for it, love some one love u.
2006-10-29 13:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by chieuduongnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋