2006-10-29 05:05:22 · 29 answers · asked by Butterfly Princess 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all of your answers. I'm showing this to my baby sister who is still a virgin.
2006-10-29 05:12:56 · update #1
Well, this is going to be an unpopular answer.
I think it's completely unwise, and doesn't fully take into consideration what a serious undertaking marriage is. Here's why I say this: Out of all divorces, sexual incompatibility is the #2 reason for divorce, just behind financial reasons. If you are going to commit yourself to someone for life, you NEED to know your partner in every way possible, including sexually.
Don't misunderstand me; it is very important for a girl to have a strong sexual morality. I would NEVER have sex with someone that I wouldn't consider marrying, and I would wait to have sex with that person until marriage was in the forseeable future, say shortly before engagement. I have profound respect for the decision to save yourself until marriage, but your sister owes it to her partner and to herself to know whether they are sexually compatible before they tie the knot.
2006-10-29 05:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Dave B. 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I gotta go with the flow, I would never disresepect someone for not having sex before marriage, I think it shows a level of trust which would be a huge advantage when she is married.
2006-10-29 06:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Very respectable and someone to be looked up to. This person is doing the right thing and is not giving into any form of pressure. That's the way it should be.
2006-10-29 13:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer862005 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is her self respect,her values and morals,her thinking.bcoz a sensible girl would never let her self respect down for anything.she is knowing about todays world and she has taken the right decision.even i have also taken the same decision,even if i love my boyfrnd very much bt still there should be a limit to everything so there should be a limit for physical relationship bfor marraige.
2006-10-29 05:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by sakshi s 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would respect her choice but then again a girl with no sexual experience at the age of, say 25, might be very boring in bed and the guy would have to do all the work and eventually get tired of it.
2006-10-29 05:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She's a lady with good morals and the type of woman who will make some man a very happy and secure husband!
2006-10-29 05:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by SKayeMesqTX 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think she knows what she wants and that is the best choice a girl can make cause once u strart u can stop and when uve opened ur eyes uve slept with.. umm.......jeez dont remember.
2006-10-29 05:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sensible
2006-10-29 05:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Either moral excellent and spiritually clean or emotionally closed off and, for a lack of a better word...crazy.
I guess I would have to know the woman. to be able to tell. Sexual activity doesn't always point to a person's particular quality.
2006-10-29 05:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by silverback487 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would applaud her. Good job hun. I wish a lot more girls would think like that. I am doing the same and my sister did the same and she felt so good when she got married. congrats for you!
2006-10-29 05:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by hottiewithabody 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋