Girls.. what helps..?

Question

Broad question title.. but what helps when first getting into the guy...

Cars? if so what type
Music?
Humor?
Style of Clothes..

Just post anything else extra if you want to.

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Answer 1

Listen, I know you are asking girls about this, but allow someone who has gone through this kind of thing to give you some advice.

Think for a minute what is the ideal girl when you first meet her? Probably you are thinking that she dresses hott, smells good, has nice hair, and she has a fun personality. This is what the girl is looking for in you, but the difference is, is that she wants a man. A man needs to be confident and attractive to the girl. Let me tell you how to do this.

Since you're asking this question, you probably are not all that confident. No big deal, we can fix that. To be confident, you have to have confidence in yourself.
-first you need to have confidence that you are attractive physically. Go to stores like abercrombie, express, buckle, and if you can afford it, Armani or something like that. Express has some good sales to get you some good stuff and it makes it easy for rookies to find some good looking stuff. Avoid American Eagle and Aeropostal because you risk getting some really crappy styles. Go to an expensive haircut place and tell them to give you something with "the messy look" and tell them to make you look hott. Go get some cologne. Don't bathe in it though. There, you look and smell great. Heck, if you can afford it, get a nice car too. So now you know that when you walk, you have people's attention.
-second, personality. Are you a computer geek or book worm? Boring. Look into some cool stuff like travel, skiing, surfing, scuba diving, sky diving, rock climbing, etc. Read magazines like maxim and rolling stone. What we are doing here is making you interesting to talk to so people won't think you're a loser and boring.

So now you have confidence in how you look and dress. Next step, get out there and talk to the girls. They'll be impressed on how cool you are and how your life is so much more non-boring than the hot meat head football player who does keg stands every weekend. You'll give her what she wants.

Do this and you're golden. I'm so freaking happy with my life now that I made myself who I wanted to be. Always out on dates.

Answer 2

I"m sure that alot of girls don't really care about what the guy has. It's more on the inside. Alittle along the looks too, we want a decent looking guy...not butt ugly. You should know that girls don't think that guys who have nice things are all that special. They feel special when a guy has a nice personality and is someone she can talk to. If you are trying to impress a girl, be yourself. You don't need to get all of this nice stuff to find a nice woman who will love you for who YOU are...and just being yourself around her. So Personality is a biggy...so is confidence! Girls ♥ guys with confidence. If you want a girl, tell her she's beautiful [not hot or sexy, so disrespectful] plus it'll sweep her off her feet, play with her hai [big turn on for girls], tell her she looks nice in what she's wearing, tell her you like her hair like that, you know stuff guys don't even bother looking at. Hug her from behind, give her piggy back rides, wrestle with her. I'm sure that you can get a nice girl this way, not with the stuff you have. HOPE THIS HELPS HUN ♥

Answer 3

I also am first attracted to a guy's personality, but he also has to make a first good impression. I don't really have experience in dating because I meet my boyfriend when we were sophomores in high school and we were friends for about a year before we got together and we are 21 now..... If i were single I guess I would look for someone like my boyfriend (fast car 2005 pontiac GTO, listens to classic rock and metal, dresses very nice and looks gorgeous in everything he puts on, and has a sort of childish sense of humor...he's cute and tall .. 6'1 and has a nice build, he's into UFC fighting)

Answer 4

It's in the eyes, if you see interest and attention there - we can tell if you are really listening and interested. Cars don't matter, but a running one is good. Music - anything but hiphop/rap stuff. A great sense of humour is totally important - anything from silly and goofy, to deep, intellectual puns. Style - more a personal sense of style, than just clothes. Guys can look great in grungy work clothes with oil all over them, just as much as they can in a suit. It's all in the way you wear them, being comfortable with being in your own skin, so to speak. (well, no leisure suits, okay....)
What helps most is being honest with yourself and the girl. Don't be something you are not, because we always find out. You don't have to give your life history, that's not what I mean. But don't say lies - about anything, no matter how small. That speaks to your character. And speaking of character, that says everything. We evaluate how nice you are to other people - strangers, workers in stores, and how you relate to kids, and your mom.
Wish you luck, eh?

Answer 5

Car- You just need to have one.. That runs and looks decent. We are not all the picky.
Music- I have many different styles but most people want someone with the same style depends on there style of music.
Humor- Most girls like funny guys. Avoid the mean humor that is funny to know but you know will piss her off. I prefer any kind of humor
Clothes- Again whatever she wants. I prefer Preppy or skater or unique.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

U just need self confidence, good personality, n take good care of your physical appearance (be sure to be neat, clean, fresh n smells good). Good humor may also help to break cold conversation.

Anyway, since u ask about cars, I don't care what type it is, as long as it has good air conditioner... n please not old-fashioned car... Well, I'm not material girl, but I just want to keep it real =)

Answer 8

the attraction quotient is different for different girls but i think the 1st thing a woman sees is the personality and body language of the guy.2nd is his common sense and intution.3rd is his attitude towards life and other people.in between these,nice sense of humor,chivalry and decency are included.if a guy possess these,most of the girls would rarely care about his material possessions or affluence. other things like music, hobbies etc. are solely based on concerned one's interests

Answer 9

Honesty. Humor. Smile. Kindness. The way he acts with his mother.

Answer 10

car~not important but have to look good
Music~everything but country
Humar~warm hearted
sweet
loveable
abit funny
style~cool clothes
neat
hot tight body shirt with a baggy jeans pants

hair style~it can be all back with some gel
or just up spiky