What is wrong with me? Why do I feel this way?
I always feel fat and I hate the way I look I want to be singer everyone says I have a wonderful voice but my music teacher said i have to find my natural voice. I want to hate my mom bu t i cant even after all that happened i was molested by her boyfirend when was 8 i told her and she ignored me and blamed. and nw that she is married to another man she lets him control my life. i cant seem to find happiness for one short moment. i am tired of this life and i wish i could just get it over with it. i feel so down when i look at myself in the mirror all i see is an ugly girl. all my firends are attractive to have boyfriends but i am not at least it doesnt seem so. i feel unloved and it HURTS!!! like crazy i suffered my whole life and i am only 13 for goodness sake!!!
2006-10-29 04:57:47 · 6 answers · asked by Lady T 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Your answer is in your question. You're thirteen! It'll pass, don't worry. Most people have felt like that at that age. IF you still feel the same when you're twenty, then you start worrying.
Oh, and forget about your music teacher's opinion. If you like the way you sing, who cares whatever others think?
And as for the molesting incident, maybe it's in the way you told your mother. Try a different approach, or try telling somebody else. But don't let him go away with it. Make THAT fight your main reason to go through your adolescence...
2006-10-29 05:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bless your heart, may God have mercy on you. I understand how you feel; after all you've been through, you cannot be blamed for any of it. Please contact your guidance counselor at school and let them know what you are going through at home, you need some professional intervention in that home. No little girl should have to have her life shattered because of a selfish mother who puts her needs before her own child. SHAME!!!!!
Please go see the counselor. It's going to be very scary I know but you can't live in an environment like this anymore, it's tearing you up inside. Don't worry about your beautiful little voice or the looks of your body, you are still young. It's time to heal that broken spirit that your mother has slaughtered. Maybe we can't choose our birth mothers, but there are good people in the world and I would love have a daughter like you. Bless you my little sister..........my heart goes out to you.
2006-10-29 05:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright. Be at peace, there are people who can help you. First I want you to know that the Lord loves you, more than anybody on Earth ever could love anyone. He loved you so much he let his only son suffer such punishment that it hurt the Lord terribly. Your never alone, there are people out there who care about you. I have never met you before but I love you because you are as a sister to me for we are all children of God. Sis, please, go find an adult, maybe your friends parents and explain this to them. They will keep you safe and make sure you are alright. If this isn't possible, look in the phone book for a church called The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. That is my church, and I know my fellow brethern will help you and keep you safe. Go there and find the Bishop. Be at peace sister, pray for the strength and the Lord will grant it unto you.
2006-10-29 05:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by freeze_guy_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom had a series of 4 husbands while i was growing up and several boyfriends in between, a few of which tried to get close to me. I remember this one guy who used to beat her up and then give me money not to tell. I saw lots of things kids should not see, lots of naked people, booze, etc., but i had to make a choice not to get pulled in to all of it. When i was your age, i decided i would live differently than her. And i have. I'm married to a great guy and have 2 kids. Your life can be different but you have to make the right choices, ask Jesus Christ to help you. He loves you and will guide and protect you. Find someone, a friend or mentor, teacher or youth pastor to talk to who can give you good advice. You are not alone~ when you look into the mirror, look beyond the image and into your heart, what do you want? God has a special plan for your life, look to Him for answers, don't be discouraged. Don't hate your mom, she's made poor choices, but you don't have to. ok? Be wise and find someone close to talk to. Let Jesus in..he cares! :)
2006-10-29 05:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi There. First thing first.You might want to speak with your Mother about seeing a doctor for your feelings. Most of what you say sounds like a rough but common life. But when I put this statement all together and look at it you might seek some help. I will pray for you and ask others to also pray. Hang in there, life is a bumpy ride.
Mat GOD richly bless you.
2006-10-29 05:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without suffering there is no compassion. Try to be yourself. For every rainy day there is another sunny day that goes with it.
2006-10-29 05:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by shkabaj 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋