alright,i am in love with this girl whom i know through a friend,we have known each other for like 2 years and i like her very much...somehow a year ago i have confess to her but i was rejected...maybe we have not known each other very well or somehow there is other reasons but i would like to know if i am doing the right thing in insisting my decision to carry a torch for her ...please enlighten me..
2006-10-29 04:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by alienlimguni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree with u guys,but i have got special feeling for her...feelings that even i cant explain...what i could not find in other girls i can find in her...if she is some other girl maybe i would simply give it up without even pondering over this...but why in this case i am so confused in making a choice?anyway thx for all replies...hopefully there will be more to come..
2006-10-29 05:50:32 · update #1
it might be best if you let it go if she rejected you. you'll just make yourself feel worse and worse if you keep chasing after her and she still isn't interested.
2006-10-29 04:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Paul W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting go of someone we have truly loved is one of the most difficult things any human being has to do. Rejection and death separate us and the pain is intense. And yet, we must do it. Trying to hold on to what is so clearly lost is only letting pain have the last word. To grow as a human being is both self-respect and wisdom, you must let her go and turn your face to a different world. It will hurt. It will require great dignity and maturity. But make yourself get busy and focus your attention on to other people and other challenges.
2006-10-29 04:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I say there are plenty of fish in the sea, so why stick with this one peticular girl? I mean, there are plenty other single girls out there. Personally, I think you should let her go, obviously she is either very shy around you and thus acts like she doesnt like you, and secretly does, or (this one is going to hurt) maybe she doesn't like you. Whatever you do, just keep hope, because she very well may like you.. good luck
2006-10-29 04:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. Maybe the timing is wrong. I was once rejected by this one girl in 1996, and then in 2004, she was pushing me up against her refrigerator trying to get me to hump her. So it's sometimes all about timing.
2006-10-29 04:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Some_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we can't control who we like. Try seeing someone else, not only for your own benefit, but to see if she gets jealous. If she acts jealous, bring up the conversation about the two of you. (Or, if you fall for the new person you're seeing, all the better for you!) Or, since it has been awhile since your last attempt, just talk to her about it. If you're making a conscious DECISION to like her, though, just get over her, because you can't like her that much if you have to decide to like her.
2006-10-29 04:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Nikolai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you now, then it is her turn to tell you. so if you are asking if you should tell her again them don't, it seems kinda desperate.
what you want to know if it is a right choice to still like this person, but is it really a choice. you are attracted to her for some reason, but can you really push those feelings aside, cause i can't. i think that you shouldn't unless you think she likes you right now.
2006-10-29 05:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep liking her.... sometimes you cant help it. But to win her over you have to stop trying. make her jelous but also keep her close. become her best friend and turn your friendship into a relationship.
2006-10-29 04:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by the world will never know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not right,u have to move on in ur life,life dosent stop for one person.think positive ,think that u must be deserving better than that person.
2006-10-29 04:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by sakshi s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋