I LIVE WITH MY EX BOYFRIEND AND STARTING TO SEE OTHER WOMEN. FOR INSTANCE HE WENT TO SPEND THE NIGHT OVER HIS EX GIRLS HOUSE AND TOLD ME NOT TO GO OUT THERE AND DO ANYTHING STUPID. I'M STILL HEAR BECAUSE WE AGREED TO BE ROOMMATES AND I REALLY STAYED BECAUSE I THINK THERE'S STILL HOPE. WE DO THE SAME THINGS AS IF WHERE TOGHETHER. I'M SO CONFUSED SOMEONE HELP ME OUT.
2006-10-29 04:45:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is wrong. You can't go through the motions like you are together and not be. For a relationship to exist you need to have an understanding. Your heart and your arrangement with him can never reconcile each other. As you fore fill the same habitual actions as before you two split your heart feels that you are still together. For him it means nothing.
Don't feel bad this emotional response just means you got heart but since that's the case you got to protect it. Move out regardless of the agreement you have. You couldn't have foreseen the spiritual toll it would take on you.
2006-10-29 05:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have heard the saying X's can't be friends. It really is true for the most part. You are holding on to something you would like back in your life and he is moving on getting what he wants elsewhere and still taking advantage of what he has already had. Take my advice. Move out and move on with your life. Your just being used for your assets.
2006-10-29 04:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mark67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you have put yourself in a bad situation. It needs to be dealt with, you need to either move out or get over him. There is no hope for this relationship if he is dating other woman and telling you to stay away. Get over it and move on.. Get out of the situation and don't keep playing the game.
2006-10-29 04:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there. Living with your Ex that you still care for is an invitation for mental abuse. If your Ex wanted to he/she could manipulate you in to believing that you are worthless and really kill your confidence. You should consider moving out into a more healthy environment.
2006-10-29 04:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are having all these troubles because you have got a foot in two worlds and they are pulling you in opposite directions. You have got to either try to stay with your old bf and let him know you are bi, or, you need to let him go completely, move, and change your focus.
2006-10-29 04:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel. If he does not share the same feelings... just stay room-mates for now.... and start looking for your own place and a new guy!
2006-10-29 04:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by T-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there and get sterilized! You don't need to be a parent if you can't even make decisions like this.
2006-10-29 04:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly be as confused as I am in reading your story. Try using some pronouns.
2006-10-29 04:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move out and meet other people. He is already moving on you need to too. Good luck!
2006-10-29 04:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have HAD ENOUGH! the stupidity must STOP!
you need to have yourself spayed/neutered and remove yourself from the gene pool...i do believe you have pooped in it and IT STINKS!!
thank you for playing, try again tomorrow!!
2006-10-29 04:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋