Ive got a friend who Ive liked for a while. She had a boyfriend previously, but theyve broken up now.
Today I asked her if she wanted to meet up tomorrow. She said she'll see if shes free and get back to me. This was a few hours ago. She hasnt responded yet. What should I be expecting, and if she says she isnt free, shouldnt she have told me by now? Why is she keeping me waiting?
I dont quite understand how women think.
2006-10-29 04:41:47 · 13 answers · asked by Joe Shmoe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women will always be a mystery believe that . the only thing i can tell you is that you cant just expect a girl who just broke up with man to jump into another relationship, they will definitely be side effect and you might get hurt ie if she decides to get back with her man.so here how you can win her love ,believe this cause its true and because iam a girl i know. first be her friend and get to the point were you share things ,i mean tell her your secrets and she will then share some of her secrets with you cause she would have earned your trust. from there you can get to know her and get her to tell you why she broke up with her man that's when she will cry on your shoulder. by being friends with girl ,she will know you better and when you ask her out she will definitely be secure and will be willing to share something more with you. if you move onto her slowly you can win her heart faster! good luck
2006-10-29 04:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be worried yet. If it's only been a few hours, maybe there are some time related things that she needs to check before she can answer. Women are really complicated (believe me, I am one), so don't rush her. She probably just hasn't answered because she doesn't have an answer yet. But if she does hang out with you tomorrow, discuss with her how you feel if you've liked her for awhile. You don't need to be wasting your time worrying about her if she's not interested, so find out if she's interested or not.
2006-10-29 12:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Nikolai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a girl and i really do not understand the things some girls do. why she said that she'll see if she is free could be for a number of reasons. that could be a nice way of saying no, or she has plans and is going to try to get out of them because she likes too. maybe she is just going to tell you tomorrow....just wait, and not by the phone.
2006-10-29 12:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few hours isn't that long. She might not even contact you until later today or maybe even tonight. My advice to you is to be patient. She's not purposely keeping you waiting. I think you're just being a little anxious right now. Calm down, relax, and wait until she calls you back.
2006-10-29 12:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man I think the best way to deal with women is to have plenty of back ups. They don't like this of course but women can pick and choose and we can't so just forget about this one and keep on hunting, if she gets back to you and you are still free then go for her but never have your life resting on the one woman, till you are married, then you are screwed.
2006-10-29 12:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you never will. Be very direct, say will you meet me at 3:45 at the old hang out? If you are not there I will take the hint.
2006-10-29 12:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl.. and a guy.. i liked who was my friend did pretty much the same thing.. and i didn't know wat to say.. like if i could hang out w/ him the next day.. b/c i didn't know if I wanted to be with him b/c i didn't want to ruin our friend ship.. but in the end he told me.. and it was one of the best things hes done.. so just listen to ur heart.. it will tell u.. and like one of my fav. saying says.. "Even though your heart is on the left side, it's ALWAYS right" I personaly think u should like call her.. and tell her it's important about meeting her tomarrow...
2006-10-29 14:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's trying to decide what meeting up tomorrow means.
Give her some more time and if you haven't heard from her by tomorrow assume nothings going to happen.
2006-10-29 12:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she means is: She will be free if she can't find something else to do with someone else. Now she is looking for anything else to do. She's not interested, take the hint.
2006-10-29 12:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lord L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she jus broke up with her boy friend then give her a month or 2 but she might like her jus give sometime 2 think and dont cal her more that 1nce
2006-10-29 12:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by racingirl222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋