The woman does not look 43 & the guy thinks she is hot.....can it last?
2006-10-29 04:40:28 · 11 answers · asked by KRIS37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it can...like all relationships it will take work, but age is only a number..;it's mentality, compatability, and understanding that make a coupme..;go for it!!!
2006-10-29 04:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by murphy51024 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the culture of the US, fueled by television, we have young, attractive members of both sexes that we continually see dating each other. Less attractive people on TV are cast as not as good, or often just evil. Humans are wired to see youth as attractive, so it's easier to show young guys as the male love interest. That's what we see, that's the way it is. However, in other cultures, it's much more common for the young man to leave, go to the city, spend 20 years amassing wealth, come back home and marry a young girl, and raise children. Very common in southeast asia. There, it's normal. People in the tech advanced west are just stuck on appearances of youth, though. Consider for a moment: Twilight: the vampire guy was 100 and was dating a high school girl. That doesn't creep anybody out? No. He looks young, so it's OK. More than OK, there were theaters full of screaming early teen girls wafting clouds of estrogen through the atmosphere, every time he touched her. If he's 43, he probably has some confidence, money, and knows what's going on. He's also probably going to be more considerate. Or, he might be a total loser, we can't tell from your question. But if he's rich and nice, absolutely go for it. There are those who will resent the competition, because women's beauty peaks early and then declines, while men only get more attractive until they start to fail physically. These young guys will tell you: "he's a creepy old guy who just wants sex". Bear in mind that the young guys only want you for sex too. And with older guys, it doesn't happen as often, so it's more special when it does. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce now. So 10 years from now, would you rather be divorced and you split the debts, or would you rather be divorced (or widowed) and splitting (or inheriting) this guys life savings (and life insurance). Considering this doesn't make you a gold digger, you have to consider finances with anybody, young or old, that you entangle yourself with. Besides the life insurance thing, it's doubtful if this guy is going to have you work to put him through college. Probably just the opposite, he works you through college. Go for it.
2016-05-22 05:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell not?? This wouldnt even be a question if it was a 34 yr old woman and 43 yr old man.
2006-10-29 04:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion there is nothing wrong in having romantic relationship with 43years female and34years male. romance does ask for age .only thing required is that the thoughts of both should match.their likes and dislikes should also match. if these factors are fulfilled then there wont be any type of problem.
2006-10-29 04:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by raghu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wouldnt it last, unless the 34 yr old is so tied up with how she looks or how she will look to his friends, etc. is the 34 year old hot also?
2006-10-29 04:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is possible, at that point of your life, you've already gone through different things, and this is really a period of transition for you guyz, make the relation what you want it to be, ok, don't hesitate, life is too short.. and don't look at the age, age is something parents created to control children..
2006-10-29 04:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I feel it can last, its not really about the age when we are older. Its really up to the individuals and their state of mind. Take it slow and see what happens. Good luck!
2006-10-29 04:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the man does not know her real age, then the relationship can be in travel after some time..... but if he knows the age, then the women is going to enjoy some gr8 sex
2006-10-29 04:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, sounds like she should dump him and come move in with me as i'm 44 and will love her when she's old and gray and he'll just dump her and find one closer to his age
2006-10-29 04:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not?
i don't think age matters anymore! there are lots of people out there who can get along despite their ages!
go for it......you'lll never know if you don't!
2006-10-29 04:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Gingersnap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋