I Broke up with my fiance in late september cause i realized i didn't love him and i found out he was a cheater. i met another guy in october and we started dating i let him know from the beginning that i wanted to take it slow cause that was how my ex and i had problems we moved way too fast well the new guy is very patient with me and makes me feel like a queen he is everything i am looking for in a guy and he tells me i am everything he has wanted in a girl. i just wonder if i am using him as a rebound or if i really am falling for him....
2006-10-29 03:58:24 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no period of waiting required. Just move on with your life. The best cure for a broken romance is a new romance.
2006-10-29 04:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was great that you let that guy go since he was cheating on you. You are wise to take things slow with this other guy. I don't feel you are using this guy, you are allowing yourself to get to know him and he knowing you. Gods plan is to date but while you are dating there should be no sexual encounters due to things could get out of hand. What I mean is that you or him might find out that you were not meant to be and someones feelings would be hurt. That's why God designed us to date without sex and then married. Also this way will give you time to heal from the last relationship you were in. Just stay focus and let God lead you in the affairs of your life. God bless you.
2006-10-29 13:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No where in your note did you mention anything about what you felt for the new dude, but you talked about a bunch of other crap.
This makes me think you don't love this guy either.
You are very smart for not having married the wrong guy, so think carefully about this one, TO ME, it sounds like the same situation....
2006-10-29 12:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happent to as well and i realise the best thing to do is to keep it slow and put your self first until you recover from your ex.
2006-10-29 12:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by atlastk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....just go for it...what happens happens....at least you let him know what your deal is so he can't throw that in your face if he ever wants to leave
2006-10-29 12:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by aReLy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋