I really like this kid in a local band. I've talked to him at their shows before and i talked to him on the computer a couple times too. So he knows who i am and I'm pretty sure he knows i like him. But anyway i was at one of thier shows last night and there were these four girls that were walking around with him on the bands break but he didnt really talk to them. Then when the band went back on those 4 girls sat in the front and when the lead singer introduced him those girls were like WOOO!!!!! And he did look and smile at me a few times. Then at the end of the show they went up to the stage but didnt say anything to him and he walked right past them. Then i'm not sure where they went but he was still there. Anyway i know he has a sister thats somewhere around the same age as him but ive never seen her so i dont kno what she looks like. So do you think those girls were like his sister and her friends kinda messin with him or do you think it was his girlfriend and her friends???
2006-10-29 03:25:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I sounds like it was either his girl-friends(not realtionship) of his sister and her girlfriends.......But not his girlfriend
2006-10-29 03:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anna-Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a band right??? and it was a public show, right?? Now this is just an idea, but what if those girls were there as sort of shills, to make a lot of noise for the band so people would think they are very popular and hot.
And then again, one of those girls could have been a gf of another band member; or his sister--trying to play up the band bigger. You'll go to another show. If they are there again, or a couple of them are, ask them who they are. Do they know anybody in the band...stuff like that. You won't know unless you ask.
2006-10-29 03:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by the witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you make yourself totally nutz obsessing over this, why don't you ask someone who knows him and his family to identify his sister?
Better yet, what if you asked him (directly or via the internet)? You could be really casual about it, joking, like I see you already have groupies (maybe "a fan club" would sound less denigrating)...or who were those ladies I saw you with the other night...(which comes from a classic comedic joke...the punchline is that was no lady, that was my....).
They COULD be relatives or fans or a mixture of those and girlfriends (not necessarily his; there are other band members!).
You say he basically ignored them at the end of the concert AND he looked and smiled at you several times.
Sounds like you've already got an edge!
Don't let obsessing blow it for you!
Good luck! (And stay cool.)
2006-10-29 03:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was his girlfriend he would have acknowledged them in someway. Why don't you just ask him? They might have just been some annoying groupies. Your best bet is to ask him it will show you trust & are just curious. Its better to be open with each other than to worry yourself in secret when he might not even know or like those girls. hope this helps
2006-10-29 03:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by mandad1084 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well... I think that.. the girl he was w/ was probably his sister.. but u should talk to him. and ask if his sister was at the show that night.. if he says no.. be like oh well i saw u w/ a few girls there.. see wat he says and I hope things work out for u
2006-10-29 03:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm tough one... i think they where gals seeking attention!!!!! i hate those type of chicks!!!! use there flirting to get what they want i rekon he just wanted to get rid of them!!! or they already had those seats i wouldent worry hey!!!! maybe just ask him was that your sis in the front row i saw?? works everytime... oh and if it wasnt just say something like they seemed to really like that all.... hehe
2006-10-29 03:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Nat M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters who they were. If he is into you, they won't matter to him. Apparently he isn't interested in them.
2006-10-29 03:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just MIGHT BE SOME GIRLS WITH WISHFUL THINKING;
what makes you think it might be a sister.
they just might have been inters ted and evidently he was not.
2006-10-29 03:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it was just some kids trying to get attention...
2006-10-29 03:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋