He claims to be divorced >6 years ago. He loves his family, of course. 2 kids in their 20's. He and his ex are friends. He works 6-7 days a week, so he says. He said he loves me. I like being with him. So.......
2006-10-29 03:22:26 · 19 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i doubt that this man wants a relationship,i think it just convienent for him , with no regards to your feelings and needs, why waste time , get rid of him , and be with someone that gives you what you want!
2006-10-29 03:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by windloverbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him if he lives in your area and you only see him once a month. If you never met none of his friends or family members yet, you might be just be someone to have sex with when he's bored. Most likely if you only see him that little, he's probably laid up with another woman the other 30 days you don't see him. You can do better. Do he even tell you where he be? Do you talk on the phone while separated? Do you know who he's with? If no to all these questions, you are being played.
2006-10-29 03:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are at the beginning of this relationship. Give it some more time. If this schedule continues. Talk to him. See what is going on. So you know what way you should go. Either all in or move on. This in itself can be emotionally draining. Waiting around for someone else to decide your fate.
If your starting to believe that these are just conjugal visits and he has no plans to make a future with you, it may be time to cut your losses. It may be he still isn't ready. If your intuition is telling you something fishy is going on. Listen to your intuition.
2006-10-29 03:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to re-examine this....he only sees you once a month? Where is he all the other days? I think he probably is still married...wanna know for sure? Call his "ex" Sounds like you are the one being cheated...lied to and lord knows what else. Been here, done that...most of the time it doesn't "end" with you the winner.
2006-10-29 03:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd spend the night at HIS house once in a while to make sure that he really IS divorced. If he only spends time with you once a month, who does he fill the other days of the monty with ????
2006-10-29 03:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't trust him. Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him? if not, then maybe you are just being paranoid. Talk to him to find out about the nature of your relationship and if you are ready to commit to more, but he's not it might be best to sever the ties and try to find someone that is willing to give you what you need?
2006-10-29 03:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by brishaalden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a typical man cheating on his wife scenario. He isn't being honest with you at all. Have you ever been to his house? If I were you I would dump him and find someone who truly loves you.
2006-10-29 03:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think youre being dumb. If he's still friends with his ex he probably still sees her (if you know what i mean). How old are you.
I don't know he probably is a nice guy but i wouldnt trust him if he only sees you once a month, what kinda Sh*t is that.
2006-10-29 03:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Hairdorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a shot, but if it doesn't work out or you don't feel like it could work give up and move on to a guy that you can have ur own kids with and spend all your time together!
2006-10-29 03:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that he only sees you pre menstral once a month , he will change his tune, but really , he has to have something else going on .
2006-10-29 03:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋