2006-10-29 03:21:47 · 8 answers · asked by Thomas T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to get to know the girl first. It's a lot harder asking out someone who you haven't talked with. If you know her (even if it's just as an acquaintance) she will be more receptive and not feel threatened by you.
When asking, don't make it such a big deal. Think of a concrete place and time to doing something and then ask her if she would like to join you. If she comes out and asks if it is a date, say yes. Don't pretend its not a date but don't emphasize the date label too much. The important thing is that you want the two of you to do something together and get to know each other better.
Don't feel intimidated or that you don't have the right to ask her out. Unless she has announced that she isn't allowed to date or has a boyfriend, she is fair game and knows it. If she tries to make you feel bad for asking, that is her problem, not yours. Props to you for going after what you want. Good luck!
2006-10-29 03:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start small. Don't go for a real date, ask a girl if she would like to have coffee with you. A little meeting for just a drink is short, and if you don't have much in common, then it isn't too bad. And girls too don't want to be wrong about trying to meet a new guy.
And try with girls who have things in common with you. You both like movies, or tv or a certain band. Then you will have things to talk about when you sit there drinking your coffee. Be brave. Girls are just as scared as you are. And ...really there is no reason to be. It just takes a while to get the hang of this dating stuff.
2006-10-29 11:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by the witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over your fear and move forward. If you don't, look out! You're gonna be someone's dinner!
Stop and think. Take a breath and be confident. Whether a lady accepts or rejects your invitation to date, is it important the you have asked confidently and sincerely as a gentleman.
Suggested reading: Dr. Norman Vincent Peale
Dale Carnegie
2006-10-29 11:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know a girl that's available and you like her, then start a convo with her. Eventually you'll know if she has feelings for you and if you see that she does have those same feelings then ask
2006-10-29 11:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by alexis10112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Hey, i got some pie in the back o' my van, you wanna come eat sum wit me, i got milk too... then maybe we could cuddle or something..." That always works. But seriosly, just be nice and say exactly what 'Riot!' told ya to do
2006-10-29 11:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Fershizzl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out with a conversation..then let her know that your not use to doing something like this and then ask her out. .good luck
2006-10-29 11:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by becca j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe asking a friend or writing a note or poem
2006-10-29 11:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"hey,i got (..) but i don't wanna go alone,would you like to come with?"and act friendly!like you have no other intention then hanging out with them or something :P
2006-10-29 11:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by Riot! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋