my girlfriend did it with her ex, and now we are going out, and we havent done anything besides make out, and I need some help. where could we find a place to go further, and how do I approach her about it. im younger than her, and just hitting puberty. What if she isnt happy with what she finds? Please help me.
2006-10-29 03:08:41 · 13 answers · asked by Confused_guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my girlfriend did it with her ex, and now we are going out, and we havent done anything besides make out, and I need some help. where could we find a place to go further, and how do I approach her about it. im younger than her, and just hitting puberty. What if she isnt happy with what she finds? Please help me.
a little more is, she has done it with her ex, and I dont know if im ready, though ive got no problem trying. i dont know what im expected to do, as in, should I have to live up to her ex, or just not worry....?
2006-10-29 03:16:12 · update #1
i also feel wierded out about stuff, because she did stuff with her ex after 3 days, and we have been going out a month now. i dont actually want to do it, i just want to be ready for it if it happens.
2006-10-29 03:19:00 · update #2
She will let you know when she is ready. And if your just hitting puberty then you are kind of young and have alot to learn and if she is just a little older then she dosen't know everything right off the bat. And she might be going out with you because she is ashamed of what she did with her ex and likes the way things are right now with you. I wouldn't worry about if she is happy with what she finds because she isn't the only girl you going to be with in your life and you have to be confident with yourself
2006-10-29 03:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be mean or rude, but if you're "just hitting puberty", don't you think it's a little early for sex? Just my opinion... though if you love her and you feel ready for it, go ahead! ;)
I think that if she really loves you, she doesn't care that much about "what she finds" but more about the fact that you guys are going to have sex.
It's a big step in the relationship!!
the perfect way to "start" is just making out, and then take it a step further...
good luck! :)
2006-10-29 03:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, dont push things ,instead let things flow and they will all fall into place. When or how ur gonna have sex is not something u plan, u just do and by the way r u too young to have sex? cause if you are,then u should think about all the responsability sex comes with.
2006-10-29 03:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a little far ahead for your age...don't do anything that you feel pressured to do. If it is right, you wont have any of these doubts and ALWAYS use protection. If you are close to your mom or dad, or any older siblings, feel free to talk to them about it and they will help you make this HUGE decision. Good luck hun.
2006-10-29 04:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to not worry about what she's done before, and try not to rush into something you're not sure you're ready for. Just let the relationship run it's course, and see where it goes.
2006-10-29 03:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it happen naturally. Make out and grab her butt and while you're kissing, lay her down. Make sure you're still kissing. I'm gonna stop here because you shouldn't just be worried about the sex. Maybe she isn't ready for it yet.
2006-10-29 03:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
initiate via a sluggish and passionate kiss that tells her which you love and shelter her. next you gonna do is initiate via giving oral. Condoms on the 1st actual journey is an entire no no. Ask her to take oral contraceptive pills. Then initiate via sluggish n no longer too a strategies penetrations. If she moans heavily (like its hurting her) convenience her via caressing her and asking if she is being injury. once you're beneficial adequate that she isn't being injury you could flow on the way you pick for. certainly relies upon on the way you pick for it to happen. you additionally can communicate on how she might like it via taking part in somewhat intercourse chat after which you be attentive to how she likes it ultimate.
2016-11-26 02:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by kittredge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things. It will happen when the time is right. You shouldn't worry about that.
2006-10-29 03:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till ur ready, then go for it
2006-10-29 03:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your hormones in your pants. the longer you wait the bigger your "member" will grow. save it for marriage. she will really be surprised then.
2006-10-29 03:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by jerryjames619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋