all the time for nothing i never did anything bad we are both vergins so we never did sex either he thinks i am using her or smething sometimes i argue with him he just doesn't like the fact that if i have to say something i say it most of the ppl wold say gd things so they would have alot of trust even if lieing msot of the time i don't i just say wat i think in these 1 and half year. i got sick we never talked about sex or anything i really love her for me she's the best and that bastere* of her father has been pissin* me off for 1 and half year wat should i do?(i tried not taking care of wat he says and stuff but didn't work)
2006-10-29 03:07:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i never talked about sex we never even talked about it i new her since 12 now about last summer we came toghter and now she is 13 we new each other for 2 years
2006-10-29 03:19:04 · update #1
She is 13---any GOOD father would "bother" the boyfriend of any 13 year old girl. In fact, I think you should count your blessings that her father even allows her to have a boyfriend.
My daughter is 23, and when she was 13 there is not a chance her father would have let her have a boyfriend or go on dates.
You need to cut her father some slack, he appears to love his daughter very much, and he only wants good things for her.
You will never understand how much he loves her, or where he is coming from ---until you are grown on day, and perhaps have a daughter of your own.
In the mean time, if you really care for your girlfriend. Respect her father, and do NOT go against his wishes, ...EVER. Especially if you want to continue to see your girlfriend.
Hang in there, and try to remember,....as much as you love your girlfriend, her father loves her a MILLION times more than that right now; and he will protect her and her innocence at all cost if her is a good dad.
Things will get easier for you on the dating scene the older you get.
I am sure this girl's father remembers what he was like when he was 14! Good luck.
2006-10-29 03:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant blame him
after all
his is her father
he will always protect her some times even over protective
and besides you are 14 and she is 13
the both of u have so much ahead of u
trust me
I've been there
when u are young u might find a girl and thing she is the best
that she is everything to you
but u are young it will always seem that way
there is only a 10% chance that u will stay together 4ever
so why talk about sex now
there is so much more you could do
like getting to noe her better
2006-10-29 11:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by x040493t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if her father is really gettin ur ur last nerves lyke that i should say dont brake up with the gurl cuz ur really love her and just tell the gurl to visit u so that u dont half to deal with her father bull shyt cuz i had the same problem.. if that doesn't work jus go up to the father and say why do u always pissin me off and tell him why he always pisssin u off and mybe the father might think abt saying yeh i do be gettin on his last nerves sometimes mybe i should stop then if that works u and ur gurls will be bck to normal good luck my friend my name is Damien i had this problem bfore and itz all solves know ok peace out
2006-10-29 11:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by D ROC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you been dating this girl since she was 11 1/2. dad has every right to be concerned. he is the father and it is his duty to protect his Daughter. if you want to win dad over, spend some time with him. it's better to make him your friend than your enemy.
2006-10-29 11:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're both very young..i don't know if u really love her that much but if u do who cares about her father;u just have to wait 5 more years and she'll be all yours ;)
2006-10-29 11:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by in3s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for the sake of your relationship and your sanity don't argue with him just show respect yes sir no sir. got it! he is her Father and he knows how being 14 is! hormones start and accidents are made! just relax
2006-10-29 11:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to school and learn how to write a sentence. when your grown you can worry about adult things. right now you can't even start to get "pissed" off. if you want to be taken respetful you got to get a better education and give respect
2006-10-29 11:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 14 , but it just sounds like he doesn't like you!! maybe you should just go talk to him just you and him, does he hunt? does he fish? or anything like that? because if he does you can talk about stuff like that, lol thats how i got my dad to like my bf, they both really like outdorsy stuff. but i don't think there is an actual reason why he doesn't like you. maybe he's just really pretectave over his lil girl and doesn't want her to grow up? u can e-mail me and talk more about this if you want. good luck with her dady!
2006-10-29 11:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pops is just doing his job, of course he is concerned he is not ready to be a grandpa! `If you want to keep seeing her you will just have to put up with him.....maybe some day he'll learn to trust you....
2006-10-29 11:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dads will be dads. just suck up to his dad by giving him some musk or a brand new leather wallet.
if all else fails, shoot the old turd and have wild sex in front of his corpse.
2006-10-29 11:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky the Kid 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋