Why is it that a woman says "its what is on the inside that counts" and "i want a guy that makes me laugh" or "i dont go for looks" do they then try to find the best looking guy in the place
2006-10-29 02:56:16 · 19 answers · asked by okdude2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i personally look for someone who is interesting, willing to share experiences with me, trustworthy, honest, affectionate, understanding and supportive. someone who loves me for me, someone you can have a laugh with, care for and someone to care for you. they have to be your friend aswell as your lover, so you may not realise that you fancy that person initially, but could fall in love with them and know they are beautiful-as beauty is in the eye of the beholder. someone that youre proud of, someone you want to spend your time with. i suppose it depends on what sort of relationship people want, if someone just wants to have sex, then naturally they will go for someone who seems physically attractive to them, if they want something more, then the physical attraction may not be there initially but will come afterwards as you appreciate just how beautiful they are.
2006-10-29 04:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not true! Or at least don't generalize!
I always say "Beauty is only skin deep" and all these stuff, and for sure I never go for the looks! and i never looked 4 the best looking guy on the planet..!!
Even those who go for the looks, when they see their soul mate, even if he's "ugly" they see him as the most gorgeous person in the world bcz beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Yes some girls might go out with good looking guys, but when it comes to serious relationships they look for real love, and u never know how good looking ur real love might be!
2006-10-29 03:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Drowned in English! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason you look for the best looking woman. It's just for looking. When it comes down to what they really want the most important thing is how much they can trust him and what his personality is like.
There are a lot of great looking men...just like women...that are so hung up on themselves they are lousy to be with.
So regardless of looks personality and confidence will win every time. If they all come together so much the better. Just the way it would be for you.
2006-10-29 03:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As corny as that all sounds, there is some truth to it!
Lots of girls like guys that make them feel special, make them laugh etc.
I know a lot of girls who do go for looks(even when they say this...mmm)
but all, in all, it's all about attraction........the way the guy presents himself, his smile, his conversation, sense of humour etc.
I guess it depends on the girls values and morals who she picks.
I once fell in love with this guy(he was ok - but his ears stuck out) and he was really short) but there was something suave and sophisicated about him. The way that he looked at me, made me melt. He was funny, bright and very intelligent and had something special. Sometimes it's just a guys charisma rather than his looks.
I hope I am making sense.
I don't think it has anything to do with bank balances, well, not for me anyway. : )
2006-10-29 03:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women look for someone they can talk to for hours and hours and have confidence in knowing they listened to every syllable. They like someone who keeps them guessing.They want to feel protected when they are with a guy not that they have to bring there mace.And when i say keep someone guessing I mean in a smooth way don't be weird about it. O and hygiene is a big one DON'T WEAR TOO MUCH COLOGNA OR HOWEVER U SPELL IT in other words don't try too hard but don't relax too much! Be yourself and if it's ment to be then trust me it will be!!!!!
2006-10-29 03:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Precious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women actually look for passion, fashion, smartness and intelligence. They also look for a man who is really understanding and loving (which's quite rare now a days). Of course must be handsome!! Okay now these are according to me. For you i can say that you are quite unique - i mean you don't want looks but a person who's hilarious, i mean a person who's different. I think thats GOOD!!
2006-10-29 03:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by DrAmA QuEeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they do. the trouble is, that if you're at a pub or club etc, there HAS to be something to spark the attraction initially, and without going round and speaking to every bloke in the place, how can you tell which are the most interesting.
however, working the other way round is far easier, you can tell which ones you have that initial 'phwoar' factor over and then talk to them to see if they live up to the packaging.
2006-10-29 02:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by spacebabe2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
we can all say that "what is on the inside counts", and it is true, however , on first contact it is a known fact that the physical is what attracts us to a person if we are seeing them for the first time. like life, love moves in stages. first it is the physical attraction , then there is the mental and emotional attraction and so on. it is when we truly get to know a person , outward beauty is irrelevant and all we require is their love, affection and trust.
2006-10-29 03:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by kitty s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young and inexperienced girls are looking for the Adonis looking man. Blue eyes,blond hair, muscles on his muscles and one that makes her friends jealous and makes them feel good.
As women get older they appreciate that men with a bit of a brain and can converse intelligently, that are courteous and kind and attentive are much better companions.
2006-10-29 03:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're usually the ones that lie and hurt people. Some of us girls do really look for what's inside and appreciate what we've got !!!!!
2006-10-29 03:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by Dragon Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋