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ok so i have twin on the way but i don't really want them. i can't control myself from not having kids. what do i do?

2006-10-29 02:50:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

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Sex pig, you need to stop having sex.

2006-10-29 03:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Grilled cheese lover 2 · 1 2

Reading this stupid question really broke my heart. What is wrong with you??? If this is a joke you are sick..
Are you aware that there are so many unwanted children in this world right now? Don't you realize that there are many of family's that would love to have children that can't.. And then you post something so immature..
If you don't want children you need to grow up and do something about it. You are a very selfish women... How dare you ruin the life of someone else. Your unborn children they didn't ask for this **** they didn't ask for the abuse that they are already taking..
UHHHHHHHHHH I am so mad at you at this moment that i can't even stand it.
You need to give your baby's up for adoption to a family that will love and protect those children who will care for them the way that they deserve to be cared for.. And after that you need to keep your dam legs shut or get on some kind of BC...
If i new where you were i would come there and take your baby's away and raise them myself...
Oh by the way i am a mother of two girls one 9 years old and one that is 8months old and both accidents but i would never say that i didn't want my children... They are a gift a miracle.
Do the right thing.

2006-10-29 11:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 5 0

Consider adoption if you really don't want to keep them. Also consider using a method of birth control. Birth Control comes in pills, patches, shots, and devices. The pill is once a day, the patch you change every three weeks (skip a week to menstrate in between the three weeks), the shots are once every three months, and the devices (IUD) can stay in place for ten years.
And as for it being bad...well I don't know your situation so I can't say; it would be wrong of me to judge you. BUt do take into consideration you can care for children your other children can testify to that. Good Luck.

2006-10-29 11:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by Charis 3 · 2 0

I suggest you grow up and learn to keep your legs closed. I don't understand how people can say... I cant control myself from not having kids... YES YOU CAN!! condom, birth control pills, Depo shot, not having sex!!!! Plenty of ways to not get pregnant. I hope you put those children up for adoption and they get a family that WANTs children. And they don't end up in foster care after you have left them home alone because "you didn't want them" You sound like a selfish person

2006-10-29 11:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by kutskova29 3 · 1 0

You are having twins and don't want them? Isn't this what BC was created for? I would suggest that you look into adoption. There are so many adults who are unable to have children but have huge hearts and wait so long for that moment when someone gives their child to them. I am sorry that you don't want them-please think about their future and yours.

2006-10-29 10:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are a terrible woman for having that kind of attitude. It is sickening that a woman purposely gets pregnant knowing she does not want children. There are so many women in this world that would love to have children but cannot.....

I suppose adoption is an option.....I dunno, but I think you've made a big mistake. Try birth control next time.

2006-10-29 11:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by tingalex 2 · 1 0

ummm...you can't control yourself from not having kids? Ever heard of a condom? How selfish is it to bring children in this world when they are not wanted just because you can't "control" yourself...

2006-10-29 10:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

There once was a little hut where a monk lived for thirty years. He only had one tray, made of clay. One day a monk, who studied under him, broke the tray accidentally. Each day the teacher asked the monk to replace it. Each time the disciple brought a new tray, the monk broke it, saying. "This is not it! Bring my old one back!"
-Zen koan

2006-10-29 11:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by zenpandaofthebamboo 2 · 2 1

Maybe it's just the pregnancy you don't like. I thought I didn't like kids until my little sister was born - she was so cute she just took my hreat away. your attitude may change when they're born. If not, send them to adoption.

2006-10-29 11:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by meilin h 3 · 1 0

if you don't want them give them up for adoption many couples will want them. After they are born consider having your tubes tied.

2006-10-29 12:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by ellc123 2 · 1 0

I hated being pregnant, after the children are born and they are a little older your look on them might change.

2006-10-29 10:56:05 · answer #11 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 1 1

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