Okay, my boyfriend has a history of beating his gfs. The only ones he's beat are the ones that cheated on him, but still. Would you date a guy who'd beat his exs?
2006-10-29 02:19:33 · 29 answers · asked by Baby Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just so you all know, I already love him so much and I'm not going to leave him unless I sense that he'd hurt me. And I wasn't saying that it was okay that he hit the girls for cheating, I'm just saying thats the reason he did it. Yeah, I'm cautious about it, but I love him too much to give up on him until I see a reason.
2006-10-29 02:31:04 · update #1
Go for it.
2006-10-29 02:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know there must be some reason you are considering dating him, whether he's charming, or good-looking, or rich, or successful or all of the above. But really, how do you know he only beat the ones that cheated? It doesn't matter what on earth the girls did, none of them deserved to be beaten. I know the guy may seem very appealing, but if you date him, you are still settling for a no-good man. I am sure, one day he will be jealous enough or angry enough to hurt you, and by then you may be too scared or too in love to get away!
2006-10-29 10:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
U say he is your boy friend so u are already in sort of a relationship with him be very careful from now its self. Guess your boyfriend cant take a NO for anything and he is emotionally very weak this can be unhealthy and also dangerous. See u already have a something to hold back before a relationship ,it will pertain even after. Find a smooth way out and inform some one who can take care of him in case if he may try to do something with u like that.
best whishes Dear.
Joy Mclane
2006-10-29 10:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Joy Mclane 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
H E L L NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't date this guy at all. It doesn't matter what these girls did to him. He's still a woman beater. Just because these girls cheated on him did not give him the right to beat them. He should have been a bigger man about it and just left them, but he never had the right to beat them. Don't fool yourself into thinking he would never beat you unless you cheated. He would beat you regardless. Don't get yourself involved. Walk away now.
2006-10-29 10:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER.........date this guy. Stay as far away from him as possible. You can never be sure what will set him off and you could be his next victim.
Always remember this...... if a guy loves girls/women they will never ever harm them in any way. Not physically. EVER. Makes no differance what they have done. They will just find another girl.
Now say you got with this guy and one of his friends do not like you. How do you think they could get you? Tell him you cheated. That is all it would take. What you say would matter not.
And one more step.... say you get married. Your life will be a living hell. You never ever know when you have done something wrong and there never will ever be a time when you can.
RUN.....DO NOT WALK....from this guy.
2006-10-29 10:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT date, do NOT pass GO, do NOT collect $200!!! If he has a violent history, it's only a matter of time before you do something that pisses him off enough for him to beat you to. Get away and stay away. And be careful when you break it off, do it with a large, tough, male friend nearby, because that could be the thing that sets him off with you.
2006-10-29 10:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by ricktheirish1967 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. He may not always do it, but if he's done it before it's something that he will resort to very quickly again. He obviously doesn't know how to deal with his anger, and it seems to be easy for women to get mixed up in these relationships, and then have much larger problems when they decide that they want out of it.
2006-10-29 10:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by krazy_b81 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, I'll never go a on date with such an abusive guy. Beware that he may do it on you even you may not betray on him. "Abuse" in his blood already, maybe when he knows you go out with some guy friends, he'll also get jealous and beat you up for nothing. You wldn't want your parents & friends to visit you in the hospital, don't you? Or claiming "free" insurance? haha..think about it babe! We're really concern for you.
2006-10-29 10:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have gotten your hint.if he hit on past gf what makes you so different. get out why you still have the time maybe you haven't pushed him to that point ,but when you do, it want be any doubt about leaving him.you should leave him alone before you end up bruised and beaten real bad,if not dead.
2006-10-29 16:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't unless he got treated for anger management. Hitting is wrong in every way. Unless its self defense. I would fear that if we continued and had children I wouldn't leave him if he beat me because of the children and therefor would be teaching the children that hitting is okay
2006-10-29 10:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by lbacig 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you haven't got a black belt in karate, then I would suggest you use your brains, instead! and keep well away from men like that! There are some women who seem to have a liking for split lips, broken noses, fractured jaws, broken arms! They spend their whole life in some type of traction or other! Then he starts on their kids when they are in hospital! piss him off! before it's you!!!! Have a good day!
2006-10-29 10:30:48 · answer #11 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋