Several months ago I met this guy on an internet dating site. We chatted for a long time over instant messenger, had long telephone calls, each sent several pictures and used webcams. We met for the first time a little over a month ago when he came to visit. We were happy with each other’s physical appearance (I’m hoping), but he just told me the other day that he was really disappointed in how my apartment looked and with the kind of car I drive. He said that he thought someone who was as classy as I am would have nicer things. I’m a recent college grad so I can admit that my apartment still has that dorm room feel (ie. Posters instead of real art, platform bed, hand-me-down furniture, etc.) but I always keep it very tidy. He then proceeded to make fun of several things in my apartment like the fact that my television is only 20 inches, that I don’t have cable, that my fridge and microwave are older models, etc.
2006-10-29 02:18:14 · 13 answers · asked by CleanAsSoap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a silver Hyundai that was a gift from my mom which I thought was a cute little car, but he called it a “shitbox”. He has a really nice apartment and a great car, but he also has been plugging away at his career for the past 7 years and I just started making decent money. I’m at the point where I can afford nicer things now, but I plan on moving in the new year and I don’t want to buy new things until I’m settled into my new apartment. I know I shouldn’t really let this bother me, but I feel like I don’t want him to visit again because he’s just going to judge me. Before this I thought he was great and someone I could see myself in a relationship with, but I don’t know anymore. He seems really high maintenance and I'm just your average jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. Should I break it off now or continue to get to know him and see how it goes?
2006-10-29 02:20:10 · update #1
I suggest you should call it off cos the person who cant respect you and your style will only give you pain no matter how much ever you try to know him better you cant change his basic nature and thoughts...he should have respected and encouraged you instead judging you!!just dont let all this effect you,m sure you'll find some one better rather best,good luck!!
2006-10-29 02:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have heard of a lady who used to get all disillusioned if a guy left at present even as he became searching ahead to a lady six inches taller or 10 years youthful. They weren't leaving because she became old and short; they were leaving because she became a liar. till now an information superhighway couple dates, they might want to each and each and every be in possession of one yet another's cutting-edge pictures and comprehend the different's age, good, previous marital and reproductive status, faith, political critiques, cutting-edge occupation and any important well being issues. they might want to commute in separate automobiles to the eating position and a lady might want to continually have a cellular telephone. An glaring liar receives left at present without apology and receives stuck with the tab.
2016-12-05 08:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey ... this jerk seems to worry about posessions way too much! He's the type that would make you a posession as well. You're much better off without him. Screw him and his material outlook on life. Lets see what all his 'things' did for him when he dies alone in a nursing home one day!
2006-10-29 02:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by brishaalden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a well-known 'player' technique, they try to run you down to erode your confidence and alternate between compliments and insults until you think nobody else will have you, and you become 'grateful' for their attention. Run, run far, run fast, and don't look back.
2013-11-24 13:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just playing game w/ u. U got to get rid of him. Next time u chat on the internet, never take it seriously n bring it to real life, coz it won't works. Still u may have fun chatting, flirting, n enjoy all the attention he may give, but keep it only on internet chat.
2006-10-29 03:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, online dating is dissappointing.
Dump the guy, and find someone whose better for you, and more appreciative of both you and your car. You don't have cable? Do you have satelite? I hear it costs less than cable service.
2006-10-29 02:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an ***. Don't waste your time thinking about him or what he says. There are too many good guys out there that will pay attention to YOU, and not what you have.
2006-10-29 02:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have an immature asshole there. Message me and I'll show you how a real gentleman treats a lady!
2006-10-29 02:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by synchronicity915 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue knowing him...If he still comes to your place and contunue chatting w/ you pleasantly, he must interested w/ you.Be on watch...Be careful with your steps and decision....You won be able to know a person with short span of time...
2006-10-29 02:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! lol! sorry hun! just inform him you can think of other ways to spend or save your money, and you've picked out whats important to you for where you are in your life at this point.
2006-10-29 02:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by whydiduaskthis? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋