Hi, I'm 17 and in love with my best friend's younger brother who's 14 and about 2 years 10 months younger than me. The thing is last summer he told me that he'd fancied me since he was 8 and I was really flattered and realised I fancied him too, so I have kissed him secretly cos I'm afraid of what my friend would think and I wondering if he will be worried about that too or if he won't care and just won't ask me out cos he's using me now. I really have fallen for him, but I'm not sure how he definately feels about me now cos he never makes it clear - although when we get chance to we mess about but I can't help but feel used cos I'm not sure how he feels about me: is there any way I can find out for sure without being too obvious? Cos I'm shy.
(he's pretty straight with me about most things, but not about his feelings)
2006-10-29 02:13:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is under age. have you thought of that you could get in a lot of trouble. give him a few years then see what you think. 14 is too young to know what you want
2006-10-29 02:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i/m not 14 but in true he's 2 yrs and 10 months younger than u But if u have fallen for him stay your corse soon u will be 18 and that make him a minner.that much time in a gay releationship well u get what i mean.If he want to mess around do it but let him start and before your 18 brithday tell him how u feel so when u he truns 18 u will know how he feels but keep that 1st 2yrs 10mons. in your head if not u may find love with Buba.Oh good luck and Happy Hollween.
2006-10-29 02:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should not worry about what your friend thinks but what the authorities are going to do to you when you turn 18 and he is 15 even thou you are a girl and he is a boy it is still not right and the reason he can't tell you about his feelings is because he is very immature and any way why would you want a LITTLE boy leave him alone and find some one your own age
2006-10-29 02:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by M JOHNS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ewww... How can you, a 17 year old young woman, like an immature 14 year old boy? That's so disgusting, you really need to find a guy your own age.
He is obviously just using you because all you two do is mess around. That's really pathetic that a youngin' is playing you. He is probably bragging to his friends about how he's bagging a 17 year old chick to his friends as I type this.
2006-10-29 02:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's 14 love - let him grow up first without messing his head up with all that love and fancying crap. Go experiment with boys your own age and if the young guy feels the same when he's old enough he'll let ya know. You can get in trouble for doing stuff with a minor you know !! xx
2006-10-29 02:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by starlet108 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. guys mature more slowly than girls so the age difference is far more pronounced than you say. you are a yound adult - he is a child.. let him play football, meet up with his mates, be home by 10 or whatever time his mum says. you on the other hand should be talking to boys your own age or slightly older. if this CHILD is really meant to be the love of your life you will meet up with him again in 5-6 years time and it will just happen naturally without all this angst.
2006-10-29 02:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by magicalle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you shouldnt date a guy that is going to be ilgel next year and plus he is14, usually girls fall for the older guy. he is to young you know more then he does and you are ready for more. he is still learning. mybe in like 5 years from now he will be ready but now he is not so move on let him go he going to want every girl he can get just let him be and telll him to find a girl he likes.
2006-10-29 02:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey you can't be too shy if you messing around with a 14 year old....I think you need to let him grow up a little and find someone more your age or older to "mess"around with.......
2006-10-29 02:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you genuinely like him, then try and find out his feelings. but remember you don't want to upset your friend. age is a factor, but if you are serious about him, then go through with it.
don't listen to others . saying that the authorities will get you, do what you feel is right.
good luck.
2006-10-29 02:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by blu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the love of god, get a grip of yourself poppit, You my dear are nearly an adult woman. He however is a pubescent teenage boy... If it goes any further you could be labelled a pedo - And sweetheart I aint joking...
2006-10-29 02:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by mark leshark 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋