me and my ex.. we brokeup for nearly 2 years already... i met him at a party yesterday.. with his new gf....i thought i was already able to make up my mind about him.. but after seeing him.. i started missing him again...and it got even worse when i saw him with his new girl...i pretend like i didnt see him and he also does the same.. now i really feel like speaking to him...and i know i would be a stupid girl if i just call him up...i don't know what is it that i miss about him... all i know is i am missing him so much...what should i do... i wish i could turn back time and ask god for not letting me know him on the first place
2006-10-29 02:02:27 · 17 answers · asked by swap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i miss having him around...
2006-10-29 02:07:11 · update #1
Apparently, 2 yrs has erased everything that was wrong with the relationship in the first place. Maybe you just want him because he has a new girl and you cant have him. Its subconscience, nothing your are thinking purposely.
Just remember, theres a reason he became your ex.
2006-10-29 02:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh girl i know i know i know i know. i've been there! i don't think you should contact him though because he has a girlfriend now. the only thing you can do is find a positive outlet, i try exercising really hardcore whenever i think about a guy i don't want to think about. i know how hard it is and the feeling may take a while to go away. just stay busy 24/7 and turn to whatever outlet you choose when you're not busy. thinking about him will just kill you. the onnnnnnly case in which i would say tell him is if you think he still loves you and if you think telling him could change his mind about how things are now. still it would be a huge risk and you have to think about why you two broke up in the first place. would there be the same problems if you two got back together? would he end up disliking you all over again if he had just begun to get over it? in the end, i say, leave it alone, and i promise i know it's so hard, but it's best for you.
2006-10-29 02:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your in a delema alright. It looks like you didn't move on but he did. If you don't move on you will never get over him. You may always miss him but remember what the reasion was that caused you two to split in the first place. Keep that in the back of your mind. You could be missing him because of the amount of time you were with him and you are comfortable with that feeling. Have you been dating? I think if the answer to that question is NO you need to. Make sure you don't compair a date to you ex. There has been 2 years of time that has pasted you by and you need to stay away from him and just move on with your life. My ex and I now live in different states so moving out of the area is a way to get him out of your system. You don't have to stay away long but long enought to move on. Since I don't know all that happened between you two that caused you to split in the first place I can't be more spacific about things for you. You do however need to get over this person and move on...Good luck
2006-10-29 02:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by cape nut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its been 2 yrs since you were with him when you saw him old feelings came back that all. If you couldnt even speak after 2 yrs then its best that you just keep the thought and not act on trying to see him. He is in a relationship and didnt acknowledge you when he saw you.
2006-10-29 02:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just remember that there was a reason that the two of you broke up in the first place. Just because he has a new gf doesn't make him better now than he was then.
2006-10-29 02:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wll,even you know it that its not love thats attracting you towards him its your jealousy,you cant see himj with anyone else if not with you,you are jealous that he is sharing the same that he did with you once upon with someone else,the thought of he being with someone else is troubling you but its not wise,though its normal for you to feel so....it'll be better if you stop thinking about all this and move on with life the way he has...you'll only be loosing your self respect and dignity if ever you call him or try to get in touch with you....move on with life,take up a sport and get busy,make new friends,hang out with buddies and just chill,you'll be fine!!good luck!!
2006-10-29 02:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling or talking to him at all would probably be the worst thig you could do. you will never get over him if you make contact again. hearing his voice or talknig to him woudl just bring all your feelins for him back. these things take time, more for some(like in your case) insteadof thinking of missing him try to think of the bad things adn his bad qualities adn y you are glad you are rid of him.
2006-10-29 02:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still care for him not that you love him but you care for him. it is okay for a woman to be deppressed, but never ever show a man that. you be strong and move on he has. he might miss you too in which case he might come back to you and by then youll hav a guy you like,love and care about. and he will miss you
2006-10-29 02:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have some fun without him. Remind yourself that you don't need him around to be a happy person. Get your girlfriends around you, go out dancing and have fun. Learn to love yourself again and others will love you too.
2006-10-29 02:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tallia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like the other girls. i don't know why we are so weak .when we see our ex.... whit someone then we miss him. just think he isn't the only guy for you. you have to be more powerful. take a new bf and forget about him.it is hard but trust me YOU CAN ,YOU CAN.
2006-10-29 02:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋