with someone for the rest of your life you have to be creative to keep things interesting! ( that way your 35yr old preacher husband want get busted on Dateline trying to meet up with a 15yr old for freaky sex) Do you agree ( I have to make it sound like a question) Do you agree? LOL Im stupid sorry
2006-10-29 01:57:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
loooooool tommy ............. i would be rude if i agreed with ur last line ............... where did u get that idea please?????????
EDIT: i mean the idea that ppl have bad sex life, not the idea that u're stupid
2006-10-29 01:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Regina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will eventually hate the things you used to love and love the things you used to hate. Sex is a totally different thing to me now that my children are all grown and out of the house. It really doesn't matter if I ever have sex again. The concept seems pretty silly to me when I really look at it. We totally become animals for a short period of time and then it's back to operating as humans. It zaps your energy to the max and then what is the pay off? Even in marriage it is used as a tool to get what you want and to have things your way. Why even go there? It is better to have a relationship with someone based on love alone. If somehow the old animal takes over and you must sweat and groan and make silly little comments, then go for it, if you are married. For me, I am married and I choose to be Celebate and use the energy for serving God. It hasn't always been that way but it is now, Praise God, because I am sure that at least 30-40 years of my life was primarily based on the possibility of a sexual experience. And by the way probably a million bucks. If God wants more He will create in me the mind for it.
2006-10-29 10:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by happylife22842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a person reaches the maturity level where sex is about the other person not themselves, and you are in a committed relationship with a person on the same level...look out...you will not ever get bored...the problem is society has built sex up to be something that it is not and not suppose to be...been on both levels and I tell you after my long marriage i can not ever imagine going back to the lower level again....
2006-10-29 10:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by chico2149 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not stupid.
The problem with today's church, is that they are Not speaking from God's will. They are speaking from there Own.
It is ok to speak from there own, as long as they claim it to be there own. But to say there interpretation of somthing written in a bible, and then to tell everyone else "this is what GOD is saying"
Is the worst kind of hyprocrite in the world.
For Jesus himself, did not follow the churches of his day, (they were the ones that crucified him)
Jesus never Once said " to have sex, is Evil"
In those exact words, he never ever said .
He accepted everyone. When the lady Mery came to wash his feet, he did not say "get away from me "
instead he smiled and was greatfull for her presence.
There was love in her heart, that no one else was willing to accept , ALL because of her acts with sex.
Sex is an act, which two loves, can use to help each other feel good with each other. To feel a strong connection to each other .
Feeling good is feeling Love, feeling Love is feeling God.
If it were so evil, then sex would never feel good.
sex helps makes couples feel sexy to each other, and more attractive. There is nothing wrong with exploring anything together.
that is what i believe.
2006-10-29 11:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by stuart_slider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely you have to be creative in sex area in marriage, specially when you have some years, but not only, in the sex area, you need to make changes in all areas, like what you do with your wife on the weekends, that would help a lot.
2006-10-29 10:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by christian? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm
i think or u can say i'm sure when u marry u have to keep this familly going on and never trade ur partner
and if one of the couple make amistake he have to be punished unless the other side forgive him
2006-10-29 10:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by ashrf6581 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a "practicing' Christian but I have read in the bible that is says "the marriage bed is undefiled". to me that means "anything goes!" So no excuses not to have all the fun you want.
2006-10-29 10:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by missbeehayv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is no bad sex there is only bad relationships. God made sex for married couples to enjoy. When we learn to honor God, that field in life falls into its rightful place too.
2006-10-29 10:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by SeeTheLight 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to me sex is something that humans can do, it feels good why wait till marriage
im not saying to go around doing everything that you see, b/c thats dirty
but i do think you can do it befor your married. no biggie
2006-10-29 12:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by blahblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the waste of time
2006-10-29 10:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋