She said that im immature because i cried. So i did not show my feelings but it hurt so bad. Am i a bad guy for trying to make her happy???
2006-10-29 01:55:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes girls do mature faster then men, but it sounds like you have matured faster then her emotionally here.
It doesn't make you immature because you cried, in fact I think that being able to cry with your girlfriend, or anyone for that matter, really shows just how strong you are. If she can't except the facts that you are an emotional guy and are strong enough to cry, I would say that you need a new gal.
HOWEVER, she might just be saying that because it made her feel really uncomfortable. When my bf cries in front of me it breaks my heart, but I know that he's going to cry and asking him not to and just to keep his feelings inside would be really bad!
2006-10-29 02:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Am I crazy, or is it you who is? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally yes, girls do mature faster - but the big difference is up to the ages of 16-18 and you're both past that so I'm not really sure what her point is. I also think the fact the she felt the need to lie about and then excuse her age should be a big red flag. and btw.... if you met online it WAS a cyber-relationship, and unless you've actually met in person it still is - the geography is irrelevant.
2016-05-22 05:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in the scientific point of view, women do get more mature than men. They think, talk & behave more maturely. She shdn't have said you're immature because you cried. Because I don't know what's the situation like so I can't advice much. But you shdn't have cried over simple issues. If what you did which you think is right, then don't bother it too much. If not, don't ever repeat the same mistake again.
2006-10-29 02:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the most part girls mature faster, but you are not a bad guy for trying to make her happy.
2006-10-29 02:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physically, yes, girls mature faster. emotionally and mentally, however... lol, I'm not so sure one is faster than the other.
I personally think it's good for a man to show his true feelings.
2006-10-29 02:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by peacefultaco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,girls being matured quicker than guys has nothing to do with you crying and being immatured....are you trying to say matured people cant cry or they dont have the right to express there feelings....then my friend you are mistaken its absolutely normal to do such things and its wise to let your self and your feelings come out rather bulking it inside and sulking all the time!!
2006-10-29 02:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. in a way yeah! but guys are much mature than they make out to be, or so i think! well, if u're talking in connection to this thing, gawd!! just leave that girl..only mature guys have enough guts to cry out n show their feelings, n a girl should respect that....instead of laughing it off.
2006-10-29 02:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by lil.princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men normally mature emotionally quicker, but its a scientific fact women physically mature faster
2006-10-29 02:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a fact girls mature faster than men.
2006-10-29 01:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to cry cry it means your sinsitive not immature. Alot of girls like it when guys cry because it shows a cudaly side
2006-10-29 02:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋