2006-10-29 01:51:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh Crispy I didn't mean to upset you but before we get married I thought you should know I am a serial bigamist xx
2006-10-29 19:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love when you find out she's married, you don't even know her, let alone love her.
Your life seems meaningless because you are wrapping it around people to which you really have no connection.
Only you can give your life meaning and relevance. Make your life what you want, don't chase what you have no business chasing. In other words, get a life. Tough medicine, but necessary...
2006-10-29 01:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not being able to accept what has happened to you is making your life seem meaningless. There is a song with the lyric, 'you have to get yourself together, you're stuck in a moment, and you can't get out of it.'
(And another, 'even the darkest night won't last forever)
the quickest cure for grief is to be around other people, if you don't have any friends to be with, go to a store or a bowling alley or the park.
seeing other humans being human will help restore your sense of inner balance
good luck
hugs
2006-10-29 01:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she mislead you? Did she make you think that she didn't already have a mate? If so, it's almost like telling you a lie. Isn't that adultry? If she was already married, get out of this "realitionship". If she lied or mislead you once, don't think she won't do so agaiin. There are otheres out there, I'll be 43 Nov.2 and I'm stll looking.You need to forget her & move on and try to find someone else. I hope you have good luck and find ms right. i'm still looking for my ms right.
2006-10-29 02:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by kb9kbu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you move on and don't get inbetween what's already there. she's with someone else so you just have to accept that. life won't be meaningless if you give it a meaning so you have to get out there and meet new people otherwise you're going to find it hard to move on.
Dance like nobody's watching, love like you're never been hurt, sing like nobody is listening, live each day as if it's your last...!!!
2006-10-29 01:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. I know the feeling. It sucks the life right out of you. But I am glad I found out now, because it made me think, what else is she lying about. I know you are hurting, but it is better that you found out now. You will grieve for awhile, then you will get mad, these are justs steps to grieving and then finally getting over what hurt you in the first place. But you are better off, I know it doesn't seem like it, but you are. You do not want someone who is lying to you to be your partner. Hang in there I know it is hard. But you desrve a woman who will not lie to you and who is totally upfront with you from the beginning. Take care
2006-10-29 02:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf8870 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you can be like my daughter and leave her she was only married four months and got upset and left. But if you have kids be careful the get caught in the middle they were together for 4 years nad it was like a light switch on minute she was happy the next life was gone and so are my grandchildren
2006-10-29 01:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you actually in a relationship with her and was she cheating on her husband, or is she the innocent here?
If she is innocent then it is unrequited love and you have no right to expect anything from her.
If not then you're not in love with her you're in love with the woman you thought she was.
Either way it's a non-starter, so you're just going to have to let go, or you will never move on, sorry pal, but that's life.
2006-10-29 04:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her,do you really want a girlfriend who is already married.She is a lier and a cheat,surly you can do better than that.Dump her and find a single women who can give you the love and respect you deserve.hope it all works out for you.Good luck.
2006-10-29 01:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by chic 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I always knew you loved me. I'll leave my husband and marry you. Start sending out the invitations.
2006-10-29 02:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋