i've been dating this girl and i love her. she was never a good lier. and today she told me she cheated on me for 2 weeks of our relationship.she said she ended it after the two weeks. i could tell in her eyes that she was really sry and she said she wanted us to still go out. she could have got away with it but she told me....she asked if we still are going to go out i told her that i needed to think for a day or two....
what should i do? should i have her another chance?
2006-10-29 01:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by countryman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, first of all, ignore everything the guy above me just said. Second, if you really love her, and she hasn't hurt you in any other ways before, and is otherwise a good girlfriend, I think you should give her one more chance, and only one. Afterall, she did volunteer the truth, right? You didn't have to ask her? And, she did end the relationship on her own, right? You two will have to work hard at it but if you're in love, it's worth this second try.
2006-10-29 01:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a question that only you can answer. If you still care for her you should take things slowly but be careful . She didnt come to your before she started cheating to tell you that their was a problem in the relationship did she? Communication is the key in any relationship. Did things end after two weeks because he found out she had someone else and then she came running back to you?
2006-10-29 09:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating and she cheated? Did she just date a time or two? Where you to agreed that you were a couple when she done this? It is up to you. Does she feel that you to were just a date when she done this or were you going steady? She sound sincere enough for a chance. make the lines clear on what you expect from each other.
2006-10-29 09:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you are thinking about it she is playing to Rodeo with other cowbow , you know what i mean bro ???
Since she cheated on you teh first time it was becouse she is not sure about her feelings , and since she did that she is just garbage , if she was able to cheat on you the first time , she is gonna do it again , in name of the men on this earth , brake up with her , out there there's someone better for you , you deserve the best not the garbage .
2006-10-29 09:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She good in bed? Get a few more lays out of her while you decide. You will be glad you did either way you go. If you take her back remember though she owes you. You go out get drunk and bang another chick you got a ready made excuse to throw right back in her face.
2006-10-29 09:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a decision that only you can make. If you think you can trust her again, then try again. Personally, I would drop her. I wonder why she told you that she cheated? She must be very young.
2006-10-29 09:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told you she cheated and could have gotten away with it she is testing you and playing games - you DON"T need this. I would dump the wh0re and never, ever contact her again.
2006-10-29 09:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON BROTHER YOULL NEVER FORGIVE HER SHE BROKE THE VOW OF FRIENDSHIP
2006-10-29 09:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by blackd010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd give her one more chance but becareful...keep your heart on guard
2006-10-29 09:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by yahooligan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her another chance
2006-10-29 10:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Just me*~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋