Ok question, people say im extremely attractive, i have a 38 E chest but im a size 18, my mates are all size 10 and below; and when ever i go out.....its like i dont exisit!! yet! when i start talking to them they say that im more attractive that all my friends?? so are men shallow....or do i need to slim???
2006-10-29 01:33:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on the man, doesn't it. actually, the more important question is what do you think about you? God made you beautiful. you seem to like smaller men. that's ok. what ever you like is ok, big or tall, short or small.
I personally like large women. small one's are nice too,but if I had to choose, give me more, than less.
If you are happy being your size than find a guy who like you now. if you want to lose some weight, then do so. we all know how , simply take in less than you burn. nothing fancy, just eat less and better, and do a little walking or what ever. if you need to lose a few lbs. to feel good about yourself, then go ahead,
Just don't go on a diet to get a man. do it for you.
God bless you girl.
Frankie C.
2006-10-29 01:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Size is absolutely not a problem where I am concerned. Alot of men admittedly look at the figure that is in front of them before deciding on whether to approach the person. What a waste of all the extremely funny, sexy, lovely women that are slightly larger than the rest. Don't worry about these idiots, they are obviously only skin deep. I'm sure that someone will come along and appreciate you for who you are and not for the size of your waist.
Good luck.
xxx
2006-10-29 02:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Hotnbothered 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are all different and all like different types of women.
Personally, I live a curvy girl between size 12 and 16, Must have a bum and hips. Most important is a great and loving personallity.
It wouldn't hurt to drop a dress size, if it makes you feel better about yourself. Join a local gym, you'll find you'll have more energy too.
2006-10-29 05:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nathan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There seems to be an acceptance that a certain type of woman is attractive, which is created and perpetuated by the media. I think a lot of men like larger women, but they feel that they'd be looked down on by their mates for showing interest.
2006-10-29 01:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy but, I don't think it matters to most at all.Be happy with who you are the right guy will come along. Some men are shallow regardless if you are slim or not.
2006-10-29 01:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my larger girl with all my heat, personality is way more important than size, however personality cannot like physical attraction be assessed by a single glance a big girl may be overlooked in a group of slimmer girls because it takes time to find inner beauty
you need to spend time with a man in order for him to appreciate you for who and what you are
2006-10-29 01:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean are they shallow? You are asking a question about physical attractiveness, and you want attention for it- so that's the category. They are fully deep in that category. If people say you are EXTREMELY attractive, those people are called- friends.
2006-10-29 01:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a plus sized woman as well. I've grown to realize that what holds me back is my own insecurity and negative feelings I have about my weight. The right man will look past the physical and look to the person within. As long as the person within is attractive, so is the outer person. And who's to say that the 'right man' is going to be a super-stud himself? He might be a plus-sized man, and we too have to learn to look beyond that in order to notice his inner qualities.
2006-10-29 01:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by Arletta S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, NEVER EVER lose weight to please someone else. If you want to do it, do it for you. You have to love yourself before anyone else can love you. Size never matters, I am a big girl myself, and I do not have any problems meeting people. It really depends on the guy. If the guy is young minded then of course, he will choose your friends b/c they are smaller first. Younger guys tend to worry about what people think. If it is a grown man, then chances are they are going for what they like, not for other people.
2006-10-29 01:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you are a nice person with a good personality.
So look at yourself in the mirror and ask:
"Am I satisfied with who I am on the outside?"
If you answer 'yes' - congratulations, because you are in the minority.
If you answer 'no', then only change for YOURSELF not to satisfy those around you.
Put yourself first for once & take care of yourself. This is a very serious matter, so consider what YOU want to do. I did this and am happy with my decision to change myself for ME. Nobody else.
Good luck :)
2006-10-29 01:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Woohoo! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋