hello everybody,
I have two twins - Dana and Eric; they are 4.5y old. usually, they play together and do not do problems. however, some day I spanking Eric on his bottom because he broken an expensive vase. after the spanking, Eric cried a liitle and Dana too. i thought she was cring because she was sad for Eric. I ask her about it, and she said that she is sad because I give attention only to her. its hears strange because when I spank to her she is sad. I explained her that Eric did worng thing and accordingly I spanked him, but its didnt help.
the problem is that Dana began to
behave worng for getting attention (As spanking). for example, some days when I back home late (The children were with babysitter) Eric was sleep but Dana didnt, and the sitter said that Dana was cheeky, cursed, and didnt agree to sleep. i said to dana "why didnt you behave as good girl? you will get punish! you will not meat youre frindes for a week!" but she continued to cursed, so I spank her.
2006-10-29 01:28:59 · 2 answers · asked by rachel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
They both know you love them and don't let them play that psycho crap on you. Behaving wrong does warrant attention and it should be given at that time. Do what you have to do. They are young and there are many years to come, nip it in the but right now before they get older. God Bless.
2006-11-01 22:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you love both of them the same.
Punishing her for a week is too long for 4.5 years old. Maybe a day would be good.
2006-10-29 01:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋