2006-10-29 01:27:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of Mother Nature's little tricks. Once the female of the species has lured her mate to the nest, there's no longer any need to be "alluring" Of course it happens more when the couple has fulfilled Mother Nature's main purpose.-- reproduction.. That's what it's always been about. You mate, you reproduce, mother raises her young till they are ready to g et out there and do the same. "Happy Families" and marriage till death do us part" is purely a human invention for "Social good order" and the "civilized society". We've come a long way since a time when we ourselves were "creatures of the wild" so the natural instincts now are all mixed up with our "socialization" and its demands and practises. But where wild critters are governed only by their programmed instincts, we humans have wills of our own, which gets kind of complicated when one person's instincts clash with the othe person's free will about something.
2006-10-29 02:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty generalized statement. I don't know many women who feel that way JUST because they're in a relationship. For the most part, a change in sex drive for women has to do with a change in the relationship. Think about what men change when they get settled..... maybe thats where your answer lies.
2006-10-29 09:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do men when they settle into a relationship seem to basically quit making a woman feel desired? Would you wanna have sex with someone who farts in front of you, leaves streaks in his tighty whities, makes dishes for you to do, laundry for you to wash, wants to have sex but doesn't want to take the time to romance you?
2006-10-29 09:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by lbacig 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I never heard of it before. I even heard women wanting to have frequent after they settle in a relationship. This is because they love their men and wish to have a great bonding and sexual relationship with them.
2006-10-29 09:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that way doesn't it?
read a story, the gist of it was, she was a flaming ho, before we were married, then, after the I do, she found virtue and abstanence. (sp, sorry).
Some girls don't stop, like one of the girls who answered you, but I think some women use sex to lure the guy in, once they've roped him they forget what it was, at least one of the things, that brought him closer to her.
If you have the above problem, you need to talk it over with her,and work out a solution. a solution that's good for both.
If you hire a whore, than for money she will perform. everytime you pay her she is expected to perform. that's the deal
if you marry a woman, you may feel like you've hired a girl for life. she may think the opposite. talk it over and try to find common ground. it can't hurt.
peace out duded
frankie C.
2006-10-29 09:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women want to please you and keep u satisfied so you won't cheat on them and you'll stay faithful. However, once you've got a long term relationship going and you get married, most of the time you're not going to cheat on your wife so there is no need for them to put out. Cus they know you're not going to go off trying to cheat on them anymore once you've committed to them. Also, in the beginning of relationships usually both of you do it all the time and its fun but after awhile they want more of a mental and emotional bond with you rather than physical and they want to make sure you're with them for more than just sex.
2006-10-29 09:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jae L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep doing your share to spice it up. Let her know that she is still exciting and that you crave her. They say that if you keep on at her he will get in the mood. Do you get tired of having the same thing for diner once a week? She gets tired of the same way you want to initate sex.
2006-10-29 09:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually because the men we settle with stop doing all the romantic things they used to do when they were trying to impress her. Men keep being romantic and thoughtful we'll keep putting out!
2006-10-29 09:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants to quit having sex w/ you!
2006-10-29 09:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by It's just me! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is used to get a man to marry them after that the guy is stuck. Hence the reason never to get married. She quits putting out boot her @$$ to the curb and get a new ho
2006-10-29 09:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋