Actually i saw her on an ocassion and my friends told me that they could propose her from my side so i tell them ok. but, now as she wants to see me i think that what if she insulted me. I have proposed a girl for the first time and don't know what to talk with her.Pls help as much as u can.
2006-10-29 01:05:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have asked her for friendship and be my girlfreind i don't want to marry her.
2006-10-29 01:20:01 · update #1
hi
U never knw wht she wants to tell u.I think it's cowardice not to go and face her.If u really like her then u must go and face her.If she refuses ........leave it at that.U cud be frnds with her if she refuses to be ur gf and if she screams at u or something don't fight back with her harshly instead peacefully sort things out with her.I hope i have been able to help u.Be free to mail me.
lov,
varsha
2006-10-29 01:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u so worried
as its the 1st time u have proposed any girl it doesn't matter if she says no but remember she will not insult u as she wanted to meet u and not u.
Ur thinking of only friendship & no marriage is very right as u can't judge whether u can live ur whole life with her just merely by looking her once at a party. for that important decision u need to spend a lot of time with each other so that u can understand each other, decide abt ur future.
i would only say that don't think negatively & go ahead, meet up & then decide abt ur future.
best of luck!
2006-10-29 01:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear how can u do so at such a young age moreover u even dont have any information regardin her. ho sakta hai dat wen u c d girl again u dont like her 2 n may b u dont like d way she speaks or sth else. And if she says NO there is nothing like gettin insulted coz may b she isnt d 1 GOD has made for u SO B MERRY N ENJOY. CONCENTRATE MORE ON STUDIES THAN ALL THIS otherwise aagey bhi jab sahi umar aajayegi to bhi koi nahin milegi!! Moreover hw can she say YES just like dat 2 a boy who doesnt have the courage to PROPOSE HIMSELF. LET 2 OF U KNW EACH OTHER WITHOUT HAMPERIN STUDIIES N Inshallah everything shall go on smoothly.
2006-10-29 01:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Proposed for what marriage? How do you plan to support her at McDonald's? Get an education make something out of yourself(like College) then maybe you can have a life worthwhile. It's hard in the real world and you need to be able to take care of yourself first. Marriage should come when you are ready for a family.
2006-10-29 01:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by rose v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you used the right term? Proposed means marriage and being with her for the rest of her life. Do you mean asked her out? If she's worth it, then if you get rejected you at least know the truth and can move on. There are other girls out there. Get to know her first. Date her, become financiallly secure and able to provide for a family. Then start thinking about marriage if you still love her. I hope this situation works itself out for the best. Good luck.
2006-10-29 01:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude y would u propose ur only 16 ur way 2 young 2 be thinkin about marriage!
2006-10-29 01:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by blibblyblubbly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEL dear the teen starts from 13een,to 19een and u r on the mid of the teen so take care of yourself. U r enough old to decide. but my advice is to go throw studies and it's d age of u.
2006-10-29 03:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by Chinmaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16 and you have proposed to a girl that you are scared to talk to, you don't even know....yeah, that is gonna work!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 01:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by JANET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...How can u be in love wi th this girl if you have never acully hung out with.Marriage is a big step.it shouldnt be somthing you rush into.maybe you should get to no her in person more befor you make a descion like that.
2006-10-29 01:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you've got bigger problems than being rejected. Proposing?
What were you thinking?
2006-10-29 01:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋