I met a guy at a club we seemed to get along really well. After the club he came on too strong, plus i was very busy with uni at the time and really didn't have time for a relationship so i said i didn't think we were right
About a month late i accidently sent him a txt and we got back into contact and agreed that we would be friends.
I had a date with a guy and it turned out to be aweful. He was out with some mate in a town bout 20 minutes away. So once the date was over i went and met up with him and his mates. He asked for a lift him so i said yes. We got into a huge conversation. One thing led to another. (Don't think i'm a ••••• i'm not. I've never done that before)
The next night i said i was at a club and he came and met up with me and we talked all night.
We talked nearly every day, as each day went by we had more and more contact. It was at the point where he would txt me on his way to work, call me at his morning tea, call me when he was on lunch, txt me all afternoon and then call me when i finished work, everyday. I thought this was leading somewhere
I invited him to my graduation ball. He booked a VERY FANCY hotel room (i'm talking $300 a night) He was a total gentleman at my graduation. We had an amazing night together. I felt like we were a couple (When i say amazing just talking, laughing and the other stuff)
Since then the contact has been barely anything i've sponken to him maybe 4 times since. Today was the first day since we came back into contact that i didn't have any contact with him.
Why has he changed???? What am i suppose to do????
2006-10-29 01:40:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he got scared. Maybe he is afraid of commitment or is playing the field. The best thing to do, is to ask him. You'll either point out the obvious, or get yourself some closure. Maybe it wont be the outcome you were looking for, but it will open the door to your future. Goodluck.
2006-10-29 01:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by abc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but it looks like he just wanted to get you in bed. Although it does seem strange that he talked with you so much. Some guys have weird rules about dating where they only date a girl for a certain number of weeks or something like that. I think it's retarded, but some guys live by it. Best of luck to you, I hope it all turns out okay.
2006-10-29 08:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I read I don't think you did anything wrong. Maybe it is something going on in his life, or he may feel like he did something wrong. Try talking to him more, telling him that you two should talk. Sounds like you two were really good friends up until that night you two had together at the hotel. Again maybe it is something wrong with his life at the moment. Best of luck.
2006-10-29 08:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lord Esaul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, I wish I could say this is the only time this will happen to you but it isn't. Here's a piece of advice - move on. Men will play the pretty part and charm you and say what you want to hear until they get what they want. Then once they have 'conquered' you - they move on.
This is not to say all men act like this, not at all. But sadly, this same Q has been posted dozens of times and frankly, similar stuff has happened to me too. It SUCKS!! and it hurts but it happens. He obviously isn't a quality MAN. Find one of those and you'll be happier.
2006-10-29 08:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be confused.i would ceretainly want to know why this sudden change in behavior.Send him an email or text and ask him to explain himself.If he does not respond then you will have to just suck it up and try to get on with your life.I know it hurts,but this kind of thing happens.you can ask yourself a million questions as to why he is doing this,and may never truly know.Try to put it out of your mind as difficult as it is and go on .
2006-10-29 08:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by insgrl2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is still in the process of getting to know you but sometimes hassle comes like work or maybe he got busy those days.
2006-10-29 08:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by bowblitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! You are just a sex toy for him. Let him be that for you. It sounds like both of you might have tried to see if it were something more meaninful, mostly you by the sound of things, but it doesn't appear to be. Move on...
2006-10-29 08:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't think you want him as a boyfriend and he's possibly dating someone else now.
You've been sending him mixed signals, and it seems like you only call him when other things don't work out.
2006-10-29 08:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by Morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you may have been "used".. he tried to sweeten you up and it worked... and he got what he wanted and now he cant be bothered..
2006-10-29 10:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on. He's just not into you
2006-10-29 08:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋