how do know when a women is testing you, what is a good come back and why do women always get what they want?

Answer 1

you are talking about one woman in your life, not all women everywhere.

Answer 2

Women have power over men only if they let them. If you stand up for yourself and understand they don't need to be pleased all the time you will find much more success with them.

Attraction is not a choice. Neither men or woman have any control over it. You either are or your not.

You can say all the right things to her....how pretty she is and how lucky you are to know her....buy her things....take her out to eat all the time....buy her gifts and you will soon find she has no interest in you except as a friend.

If you never do any of these things...tease her allot....if you are funny....unpredictable...... call her only once or twice a week you will find them calling you.

The testing thing is just to see what kind of man you are. If you act like a brother....or one of her friends.....you will soon find you are just that.

You will always have a feeling down deep in side you when she tests you. You will know that this is not a simple question. But you have to pay attention. When she asks this question always take your time in responding. Gives you time to think. If it feels like a test it is. Just come back with your own question. Why do you want to know?

The more confident you are....the more you tease her and have fun with her....and the more unpredictable you are the better off you will be.

Answer 3

Depends what you mean by testing - do you feel as if she's playing you or just gently coercing you into doing something you dont want to do??

and come backs?? - in my experience this tit-for-tat approach is rarely worthwhile as it just morphs into game playing which messes up everyones head......

and we do NOT always get what we want - women are the ones who have to do most of the leg work, most of the emotional work and when it comes to having babies, most of the physical work!

If i got what i wanted then id be with my perfect partner (even tho they dont exist in the male or female sense!) lol

be more clearer in what it is you are asking and what the situation actually is as this is a confusing question

Answer 4

there's no good come back and if I always got what I wanted I would have been on a beach in florida this summer instead off being stuck here doing diy and looking after 3 kids at the same time.

Answer 5

Women get what they want because they are more socially skilled than you and can manipulate you with ease. Learn to live with it if you are a male, very often what they want is the right thing!

Answer 6

You know when a woman is testing you when "she is speaking in your direction"... they dont always get what they want, but women will step on each other if they think it will help them get something from a man.



(ouch... but you know its true)
guys, on the other hand will support each other even if complete strangers and NEVER look at each others shoes.

Answer 7

women can get what they want because they use their charms to manipulate a guy, however, because they use their god given natural talent of charming men, its difficult to know when they are testing you, as they can distract your wits, and a good comeback is up to you!

Answer 8

I have devoted my life to the study of one of the greatest mysteries of the universe. an enigma a puzzle beyond belief .Women !!!!

Answer 9

how come YOU want to ask 3 questions in one??! women are conniving, true, but that's part of their mysterious power... you'll never be able to fully understand and predict. Might as well love her as she is.

Answer 10

a woman is always testing you - always

a good comeback depends on the question/arguement

women get what we want cos we are always right - even when we are wrong.

Answer 11

women like to push the boundaries as do men to see how far they can succeed in gaining the approval of the other. It's as if they can gain validation of themselves through others and like what children do when they want more of something, they will push and push until they are granted another biscuit for example, until they get one.

We are no different as adults and as we mature, we will push the boundaries to see how far we get and those who have more confidnce and good self-esteem, are usually successful because they don't doubt their own ability to meet their own targets and goals.

Successful women in jobs, as in relationships have unswerving confidence and don't fear rejection in the same ways as women with lower self-esteem and usually cope well with rejection and pick themselves up and start all over again until they do get what they want. This is a good come-back from an earlier set back she had..

A confident woman will assert herself but not always in an obvious way - she somehow goes under the currents and is a good listner and picks out in others what the others are wanting, she observes body-language, listens to the other person to get clues as to what that other person is thinking and emulates what she thinks that person wants. Mirrors their ideas and thoughts as if she is on their wave-length and so she if projecting back what others are puttting out.

This is called mirroring.

Truly confident women are not aggressive about getting their needs met and don't resort to manipulative behaviours. A woman who needs to prove herself is not confident at all, because she wants the approval of others and will have a tendancy to flaunt herself and her material world. She will test others out by doing this is to get a reaction to see if the other person approves of her or not. She has a tendancy to brag too and this is not a woman with good self-esteem. She will be like a child, prodding at you for acceptance.



Truly confident women will appeal to the expectations of those she is trying to impress though does it in subtle ways because her need to make an impression isn't so strong - it is the goal for her that drives her. we are all capable of making an impression on someone when we really want to and this is what counts. And not all confident women are naturally confident and have a stronger need to make an impression because they don't quite accept themselves for who they are. They tend to be more manipulative and seek out those who are more apt to give into her needs.

A lot has to do with the way we were parented as children and if we had few boundaires or no boundaries at all growing up. This makes who we are as adults and whether we are confident or not . There are more un-confident women then there are confident ones about and it takes a courageous woman to really get what they want and they will often sacrafice a great deal to get what they want.

It all depends upon the objective of her goal and if she is doing it to gain approval or if to fulfill her ambitions in life.

Some women will say or do something to see how you will respond with them to see if she has gained your approval of her and is what children do with their peers. It is part of human nature that we all test others out to see where the other person's boundaries lie and if they can be crossed or not. If the aim of the woman is to get your attention of her, she will make herself more present around you, if her aim is to show off because she thinks she is better than you, then she does not like herself very much and therfore is trying to get your approval of her.

Women who have a need to impress all of the time are not really confident and feed off the attention they are given because underneath, they do not like themselves. They will put other people down a great deal of the time to make themselves feel good about themselves.

A woman is then testing you to see if you approve of her. A naturally confident woman doesn't have this same need and are usually quite reserved by comparison and don't tend to flaunt their assetts as it were and don't seek the approval of others and so they don't usually test out their friends to see if they approve of her or not.

Don't know if this has answered your question, but this is the best I can do.