how can i forget him i love him.. eventhough he always tell me he has already girlfriend(longdistance relationship) he also told me he fall inlove at me but he already commited to that girl. he told me he is happy everytime his with me im happy also.. why being inlove is soo hard?
2006-10-29 01:31:57 · 22 answers · asked by Lonely girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i understand how you feel, i'm going through the same thing, im in love with this guy and i think about him everyday even if i meet other guys. i think it will take awhile to forget someone you love. even if i dont talk to him i still feel the same way. the sad thing is that i was in a relationship that i just broke off because my heart belongs to someone else. i guess if its meant to be it will happen but try your best to move on although its hard, only time will tell. to answer your question about why it's so hard to fall in love...i think people are so scared to lose the person they fall in love with so most of the time they choose to be with people who are "safe" so if they lose that person it wouldnt hurt as much as if they were with someone they were truly in love with. take care.
2006-10-29 01:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still love all the men that i have been in a long term relationship with. I think about them occassionally and I'm glad that I do but that love has faded from a romantic love to a kind of remote family love. They were there in my life, they helped to shape who I am today but I moved on. I'm not saying that the process wasn't very painful each time because it was but firstly I learned to accept the fact that it hadn't worked out, then grieved for it (lots of tears, lying in bed and feeling incapable of anything), learned to live with it (and still actually function as a person!) and let it fade from the bright sparkling love that it was to a duller distant version. The time it took varied. Once it took 2 years but i wouldn't want to forget these people. Maybe if you tried to really forget you could. I'm not sure. I would think that things or situations would remind you. I hope you work things out. Good luck for the future.
2016-05-22 05:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will NEVER forget him. But you can love again. when I was 15 I fell in love with this guy (it was not "puppy love", it was real love) however we grew apart and he move over 250 miles away. Needless to say he got married after us being broke up for about 2 years and I did the same. I then found out that he was killed in a car accident, even though I was married and had a child with someone else, a little part of me died inside too. But the memories are still there and I will never forget him, he gave me someone only one other person has given me. It is hard, but you can do it.
2006-10-29 01:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Shaunna H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't forget the person you love. It's hard to not to forget. Time can heal your pain sweetie. I understand he fell in love with you and yet he is still with someone else in a long distance relationship. I think if he is not willing to discontinue the relationship with the other girl, then you need to move on from him. Yes, moving on is hard. If you spend time with this man then slow down and try to stay away more. Think of things to do. Like I said TIME can only heal what your going through in your heart. Love is hard especially when we can't have the one we really love. Sometimes this happens, use this to make you stronger and learn from it. Good luck to you and I wish you well.
2006-10-29 01:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by MizzSweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to forget someone that you love. All you can really do is try to move on. Go out and have a good time and before you know it you will meet someone new and you will fall in love with him. It is going to be hard. I don't think that you will ever forget him, he will always be in your heart, but sweetie this was never meant to be.
2006-10-29 01:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give this relationship some space and some time. Have you ever heard the expression, "If you set it free and it comes back to you, it was meant to be." Well...............think about it. Your still talking to your ex. You havent set him free. In the mean time, go do some stuff on your own. Make new friends, date, do things for "YOU". You may find, that God had another plan for you and Mr. Right, was just around the corner.
2006-10-29 01:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by abc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time - depends tho but he sounds as if he's having his cake and well and truly eating it ! spend time with folk who you have a mutual respect and love/like for, dont waste headspace on this a$$hole....
he says hes in love with you but is committed to a long distance relationship - do you know why this is?? because its LONG DISTANCE - hes avoiding the intimacy issues and can be who he wants to be in the eyes of this other long distance g/f. he's a player who is getting his ego fed off both of you.....
back away from him as he is not ever going to give you what you want or need - if he loved you then WHY is he 'committed' somewhere else
sounds like BS to me.........forget him as hes not pulling out any stops to be with you.........
ps being in love is very hard at times but its all a big learning curve as theres others out there who will return what you give to them and if they dont then they aint worth it...
xxx
2006-10-29 01:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by clairejoolz78 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it's not easy to forget ... trust me I've been there... but do one thing .. make a list of his bad things about his personality and think about it all the time you will drop the whole idea and start liking others... good luck ... there are lots of guyz doesn't deserve you and he is one of them.
2006-10-29 01:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just part of life, truthfully this dosent sound like a relationship that would ever work out in the end. if hes commited to someone else, i wouldnt interfer with that. is he happy with this other person??
2006-10-29 01:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?
Never forget... hold on to the memory of the great times. Remember what worked and didn't work... use that to help you select your next mate.
Look LOVE is hard. Everything that is worthwhile is.
You do have to figure out HOW to move on... and forgive and learn to love again... but please NEVER FORGET. To do so would be depriving yourself.
2006-10-29 01:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋