Orright here it is, i met this chick a couple weeks ago who ive gotten to kno a bit and am really interested in her and got a lot in common with. Only problem is she has so many other guy friends including heaps of my mates and i dunno if shes interested in any of them or not, after talking to her she usually says love ya n stuff like that but i get lots of chciks saying that to me and my friends so u cant tell how she feels. So i dunno if i should ask her out as i dont kno these things. I have no problem with asking chiks out and dont care bout getting rejected usually but this chick is special ay. How do u suppose i find out if shes interested in me or not. Cheers guy, hope that didnt sound to poofy hahaha
2006-10-29 01:30:25 · 15 answers · asked by 4playbodyboarder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's simply actually. Why don't you go up and ask her how she feels about the two of you guys hooking up some time. I am sure that she is dying for you to ask her out. The only real way to know these things for sure, is if you ask her. Be genuine on how you feel for her and tell that she does not have reflect those feelings for you and that you will be cool if she just wants to be friends. Us chicks can basically make any guy feel important and that we want a relationship with him. But in fact we are just being friendly and guys tend to take thins out of context. She might say that she loves these other guys but it is probably in friendly or brotherly manner. No worries. So go up and ask her. It is definitely worth a shot. Best of luck amigo.
2006-10-29 01:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how she acts around you and how she acts around other people. Sometimes when a girl likes a guy their voice will get softer around the guy, or they'll make more eye contact. Also, does she ever seem genuinly concerned about you? These are a few signs that she may be interested in you.
However, definitely go for it. If you never ask her, you'll never know, and that's one of the biggest mistakes you can make.
2006-10-29 08:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by sarah belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi from what u've said this girl more than likely likes u alot but the best way to find out would be is does she when were with a load of mates try to have a chat with u or if she is chatting to someone else bring u into the chat if so she does like u and is just trying to find out if u like her to. so just bite the bullet and ask her out somewhere just the two of u and see how it goes u will only regret it if u don't and if she is like me r my mates she would ask u cause she will think u will reject her!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 08:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by laurenj677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u have a girl interested in you and ask her advice .
tell her youre not interested in this girl and get onto the subject of another girl you do like.
youll soon get the jist of her feelings.
ps if she dosent like you dont worry as she maybe a lesbian lol.
2006-10-29 08:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and be subtle when you ask her, girls don't like being put on the spot, maybe txt her when you know she is on her own and ask her out for a drink just the 2 of u.
good luck babe, xx
2006-10-29 09:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by little_teapot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be going out with the guy friened and she proble is going to wait to the right time to tell u but if she act like that if i was u i will dump her *** that quick
2006-10-29 08:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by bootz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed. Just go for it. If you sit here wondering whether to do it or not, nothing will get done or resolved.
Good luck!
2006-10-29 08:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by CtrlAltDelete361 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i would ask my friends that are her if they liked her, and if they didn't then i would go for it. If they did i would ask them if they minded if i asked her out.
2006-10-29 08:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by monkeykiwi_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go straight up to her look her in the eye and tell her that she turns u on and wait to see what she says
2006-10-29 11:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's that Nike advertisement again? Just Do It.
2006-10-29 08:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋