First off, ive been infatuated with this girl for 8 months. Ive tried forgetting her, dating others but always come back to thinking about her. She has a boyfriend, so i never made an official move.
Im at a stage where uni is about to end and i wont really see her for 4 months. We are very friendly, but not hanging out friends (only studying hanging)
When we talk we flirt, she flirts more than me, she always stares into my eyes when either of us talk, or brushes agaisnt me, or makes some physical contact. so i know she isnt repulsed by me ot anything and must be comfortable.
im planning on saying something like " Anyways before I go, i want to let you know how much im going to miss you over the break, I really wish we could have spent more time together this year. If not for your boyfriend I would of asked you out, but yeah if anything happens or you want to catch up id really like it, even just as friends, anyways let me know and ill catch you later"
2006-10-29 01:18:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's perfect mate. don't be afraid to speak your heart. how will she know if you don't communicate. you have nothing to lose, and a girlfriend to gain
2006-10-29 01:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by universalist49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way, if you had a girlfriend and she was being flirtaeous with another and that guy would say what you're planning to say would you be comfortable with that.
I wouldn't say that because it's disrespectful of the relationship she has. If she were to end her relationship I'd say go for it ude, but otherwise sit on your hands and date others. I'm sure you'll find someone that you're just as attracted to.
2006-10-29 01:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if her and her boyfriend continue to see each other she will have the most flattering thing ever said to her locked in her memory for years to come, and if it does work out it for you two it will be that comment that would be the start of something great. You are a sweet heart!
2006-10-29 01:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great!!!! You wait and don't steal her from her boyfriend. If she feels the same way after, she MAY let you know, and so keep contact with her over the break. Kay???? Anyways, good luck!!
2006-10-29 01:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Veronica N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound sweet i say go 4 it this guy i knew said something like that to a friend of mine and she dumped her boyfriend and they went out for like a few years but then he moved away good luck hope it works well
2006-10-29 01:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on man if she already has a man move on there are more girls out there that would probably want you, she evidently just wants you as a friend so just deal with it. if you dont think you can just be friends then tell her how you feel and then move on if she likes you like that she would let you know
2006-10-29 01:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by bj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow..i can kinda relate to her coz i flirt with guys a lot, especially with this one guy whom i really like, but trying to forget... i think he likes me too, but since he's not saying anything i'm not really sure if he really does or if he's just playing around.. so my point is, tell her how u feel!! coz if she's kinda like me who wants to know how her status is first, then it would be so much easier if she knew that u like her.. "Hearts are often broken with words left unspoken".. just remember that ok? i hope i helped:)
-pOr tarts
2006-10-29 01:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by pOp taRts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds honest and not pushy to me.
It leaves the ball in her court.
Good luck, I think it will work out.
2006-10-29 01:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like the perfect thing to say, at least you'll know where you stand with her
2006-10-29 01:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might ask him who she replace into and if he further her telephone variety to his record. next time I picked him up from the station, i may well be on the platform in a appealing gown, heels, and greet him with a extensive kiss...then ask to be presented to his "buddy".
2016-10-16 12:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋