Last night i sent in a question saying that i liked this guy but wasnt sure if he liked me.I asked people to help me and let me no whether they could tell he liked me or was just using me.I got alot of answers back and i got really upset over 1.I am 15 which that person who wrote back knew,she accused me of being a tramp and a ho,she said i should deserve to be raped and forced to be pregnant at 16.It bugged me for the whole night that a grown woman could say such things to a girl my age.I only asked for advice but advice was not what she gave me.Did she have the right to say those things to me?
2006-10-28 22:25:05 · 14 answers · asked by ms.biatch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELL NO!!!Who the heck does she think she is?!?So what if you are 15, as if that is something bad. That woman must be a really sick person to say something like that to you!Try to forget about it...Some people are just evil...or crazy to say such kind of things.
P.S.: Could you paste the link of the question so we can see exactly what happened?
P.S.2: It's ok, I've already found it.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoIbTw5f1SztmDuTDZa5GJnsy6IX?qid=20061028171320AAdwAjI
2006-10-28 22:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tina Shh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because some people just dont get it and really dont care about how old you are or how you may feel about their answers....this is a fantastic place to get real information from real people but you need to take the good with the bad...it makes me a little peeved to see some of the answers that are given but I cannot change peoples ideas or thoughts nor would I want to. The best advice is dont worry about what she said, take it as though it was not there.. I am sure you got a lot of positive responses and work with those instead... dont let what some strange person who knows very little or nothing about you dictate how you feel be proud that you had the courage to ask a question and get some answers to how you feel.... you did not deserve that type of remark from her at all... be strong and keep your chin up...big hugs ....
2006-10-29 05:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by different_tastes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it wasn't nice to have those things said to you, but what do you expect? The internet is an environment where very little (if any) censuring or monitoring happens. Basically, anyone can post anything they like on the net and does not have to follow any rules of what you or I would call nice or considerate behaviour. There are sites on the net which I find offensive, but can I stop them being posted? No. So, the lesson to be learnt from this is: be careful when baring your innermost feelings and emotions to complete strangers, someone out there will find great satisfaction in trampling them into the dirt.
2006-10-29 05:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't see the original post, but it sounds like she stepped over the line some. However...Remember, this is the WORLD WIDE WEB. You gonna get responses from everybody and anybody that is surfing thru. I wouldn't lose much sleep over it...Just read the 1's that are sent and delete the 1's that are to far out. As far as what you have written here...Why don't you just go up to the kid and start talking to him. what the worst he can do? If he shows interest. Good for you. He blows you off,then you know that he ain't a prospect... Good luck.
2006-10-29 05:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, if you lay your personal life out like this for the whole online world to read...you're asking for a couple of idiots to respond in a not-so-nice manner. So try asking your close friends, your family etc. - actual people who care for you, not people online who don't care who they're hurting or really what they're writing.
2006-10-29 05:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is hers now. Turn her in for abuse and maybe they will cancel her account. Don't let what others say about you influence how you view yourself. Good luck.
2006-10-29 05:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by barkel76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the comment. Its upto u, what u take as an advice and what u ignore as junk.
2006-10-29 05:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by whisper v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of mean people out there in the world, and they will step on people they think are weaker (because younger or whatever). you have to be strong and don't let these people hurt you.
2006-10-29 05:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by domangelo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honey you don't ask a question like that and expect
not to get the odd stupid answer ..
You know what you are.. and that's all that maters to you
How dose that person who was rude to you.. know you ...
She probably described her self to you..lol
2006-10-29 05:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it doesnt matter how old u are or how old she is nobody has the right to tell u that. dont worry about it tho some people are just @sses
2006-10-29 05:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋