That's why God invented porn.
2006-10-28 20:54:35
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answered by Anonymous
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god doenst punish. it is man who punishes himself, once people begins to understand that then they will realize the truth behind it. The man is obviously committed to this wife and needs to talk things over as to her frigidness, if she is unable to change and he cannot cope with it, then divorce her he must do as his happiness depends on it, and her happiness is also vital so she needs to cooperate in the marriage and acknowledge her friginess and maybe "warm up". If the wife remains frigid after the man attempts to "warm her up" since it obviously bothers him and after he should get a divorce so he can move on with this life. no one is punished, and thus If he cheats on her, i would have to say that what goes around comes around, and he might not think of it at the moment but oh it will come bak to get him someday...
2006-10-28 21:07:22
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answered by balanced112 2
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I truly hate it when a man calls his wife frigid.You know women talk about intimate private things and pretty much when a guy calls his wife frigid,he doesn't know how to do it right and she doesn't want to hurt his man pride with the truth.Do a better job and she won't be frigid.
2006-10-28 21:07:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, in my opinion. Her frigidity has nothing to do with his fidelity. In marriage, he swore to be faithful no matter what, though sickness and health- and I think frigidity is a sickness, in a way.
Now, if she understands his needs and her inability to help him, and lets him seek sex elsewhere, then that's a different matter, but then again, I'd hardly call that cheating, since she knows and gives her blessing.
P.S.- it's always good to talk things out, rather than dismiss someone as frigid. Communication is key!
2006-10-28 20:56:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Adultery is adultery. It's condemned. (See 1 Corinthians 6:9.)
But there's no such thing as a "frigid" wife. There are such things as poor communication and selfishness. A husband who treats his wife well, loves her "as his own body", should not have a "frigid" wife. (Please read Ephesians 5:25-33.)
Failing to give each other the marital due, is in itself a sin. Paul warns that both should not fail to give it, because one or both may be tempted to sin because of their own lack of self control. (1 Corinthians 7:3-5) Self-control is a requirement for Christians. (1 Corinthians 9:25-27)
2006-10-28 21:14:49
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answered by Anonymous
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I WOULDN'T SAY he might or he might not ,because we can't judge any human being according to that but only God knows
and don't forget that marriage is a covenant between a man and a wife before God WHEN U BECOME man and wife u r joined or bound together by God.
Fornication is bad coz u r not satisfied with yr spouse and seeking an alternative
2006-10-28 21:11:16
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answered by Anonymous
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I rather accept GODS PUNISHMENT and CHEAT on frigid wife
2006-10-28 20:58:06
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answered by serengeti 3
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If there's a god, he should punish a frigid wife if she demands her man loyal to her. The man should either accept how his life is with her, or leave his wife and find a passionate partner.
2006-10-28 20:55:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes.
Maybe she has her reasons. Even wives can feel used.........wham , bam, thank you mam. Hormones can determine if she is interested, or maybe the husband just shows attention when he wants something. It can be many reasons. Or maybe the husband rushes her when she isn't ready.
The problem should be discussed in a loving way .......even get professional help.
How would you feel if she did that to you......go to other men. You can pass a sexual disease to her or the other woman could tell your wife.......your family and or kids would find out. It can lead to divorce and much hurt.
The Bible has plenty to say about whats right and whats wrong. God forgives, but we have to quit sinning.
2006-10-28 21:01:09
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answered by 4263 4
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the frigid wife is punishment enough
2006-10-28 21:08:56
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answered by acid tongue 7
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All sin is punished. What a man sews, he must reap it. Adultery is a sin. Two wrongs do not make a right. Why not just divorce her if it is so bad? He can get forgiveness for one sin(divorcing his spouse for something other that infidelity) as opposed to continued sin(continuing to cheat on his wife). Oh, and tell him don't forget to repent after he divorces.
2006-10-28 20:57:53
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answered by Anonymous
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