Lately I haven't been dating because the guys around where I am are just not a challenge to me. I think its because they give me compliments(not trying to be conceited) from the get go and I think to myself "He's not even going to make it hard for me." Many of my friends say I think like a guy but after a while I want to actually feel anticipation or something toward a guy. Also when I say "challenging" I don't mean by age because I recently went out with a 35 year old and he actually said he wanted a relationship with me(even introduced me to his friends and family)....I of course ran out the first door that I saw. It has come to the point that I actually find compliments/flattery a major turn-off. I don't know maybe I need to move from here.
2006-10-28 20:48:15 · 18 answers · asked by Don't dream it's Over 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, I am not conceited...I am being honest. It's not wrong for me to say how i honestly feel. WHat, am i suppoose to be grateful only because a guy shows attention to me? I don't think so. Oh, and you are the first person, EVER, to tell me that I am conceited...that's no BS! I am not going to apologize only because of how I feel.
2006-10-28 20:55:42 · update #1
YES! I guess I am conecited because of my looks. I am not going to deny that I am attractive but that's not the only thing I have going for me....I am actually a semester away from graduating college and will go to graduate school afterwards. Oh, and to the guy that says I give it up.....you will never have the opportunity to be in my presence so you shouldn't be concerned on who I give it up to.
2006-10-28 21:03:20 · update #2
LOL....I have to laugh at you guys because all of you are under my category of guys I would dismiss in less than a second. I honestly think you guys just feel insecure about yourselves. Oh well, we all can't have confidence!
2006-10-28 21:09:26 · update #3
well let me help you out. You're too skinny, no boobs, conceited, shall I go on? Want a challenge? Post the questions you really need to ask yourself and see if the answers (the honest ones) match up to what your heart tells you. By the way, I wouldn't take you home because you had a Barbie body, but I would if you had a Barbie heart. Good luck.
2006-10-28 21:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't challenge yourself.
If you did then you might find them more interesting.
Perhaps you should start making the first move and see what it feels like to be the first mover. You say you like flirting so try flirting yourself.
It sounds like you view relationships as a game, so play the game and see if you are anybetter than these guys you don't appreciate. You have notheing to lose. Afterall, they flatter you already.
It is time to swim in the stiff current and try and avoid the undertow so to speak.
I think you will enjoy it, or at least appreciate the game more for trying to walk a mile in the other person's shoes.
Of couse, it could be that you want to start dating women. that is up to you. It will be challenging.
Have fun.
2006-10-28 23:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you recognize why you will have to constantly prevent combating within the first position! Pride has no position in any of the martial arts that I am aware of. It's all approximately HUMILITY. Say "No" and in the event that they feel that you just cannot battle, SO WHAT? If they feel that you're afraid, SO WHAT? There is not anything mistaken with that. Pride is a foul factor. False delight is even worse. .
2016-09-01 04:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by chautin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about guys? Sounds like you already have a great relationship with your mirror!
So nobody ever told you you're conceited before, huh? Well, as the ancient Greek said when he saw a beautiful stringed instrument, "What a lyre!"
2006-10-28 20:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You dont find guys challenging because you havent found a real man who gets you moist. Yeah if you have a great body no man is going to turn that down, so their is no challenge. I think you prob. need to move. Find somone who you cant get an angle on. If you dont know what their thinking before they say somthing then maybe its for real. Change your dating habbits even. try new places, new watering holes.
2006-10-29 02:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by triplexpert69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too stuck on yourself.
You seem to be the only one convinced that you are attractive. The problem is, any attractiveness that you may have is being negated by your conceit. That isn't attractive at all.
Imagine the beauty that you would be if that were gone.
2006-10-28 20:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just move to somewhere like L.A where conceited fake people are a dime a dozen.
You should blend right in there and won't have to worry about male attention.
2006-10-28 21:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look young girl life is too short make used of it and never put people down. 4me your look is nothin when its come to friendship or relationship just try to respect guy nd show some sence of belongin.
a word is enough 4 a wise
2006-10-28 21:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by demoheart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the X-factor that is a high commodity on the commerce market and everyone wants to ride the wagon. They are missing the X-factor.
2006-10-28 20:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are talking about the rare and elusive "real man." The one who keeps you on your toes and doesn't take your sh*t. He knows what he wants and how to get it. Some might say he's kind of a jerk but for some reason they love him anyway. Come to think of it I may be the last one not in captivity.
We are in a similar situation check out my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApGzcfk76M.nIPEX_GCoVvnsy6IX?qid=20061026140929AA5uhv7
2006-10-28 20:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋