i have a ex and we have broken up a million times. he always in time come back. well this time will be different. i just dont know which one should i do. should i be nice and let him know i am happy and have moved on? or should i just not answer anymore of his phonecalls and hopes he gets the message. im not like him. he is mean and cold hearted at times. i just want to be civil and where he gets the message without losing my pride or doing something evil cause he did me wrong. should i talk to him on the phone. cause he will call. he always does. i just dont want him to know the things he did broke me down.
2006-10-28 20:08:32 · 20 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you strong enough to stick to your guns if you do talk to him when he calls? If so, briefly explain how you feel and you feel better without him. If your not sure and he has a way of breaking you down and getting back together again then let his calls go to voice mail.
2006-10-28 20:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i bascially thinks that according 2 ur feelings, u should once sit with him and talk about him properly. Tell him that u r tired of breaking with him. Tell him that u want 2 be left alone for some time. So this way as u will be alone, u will easily realize in a short span of time about whether u want 2 be with him or not. After that if u still feels that 'yes he's the one for u', then do talk 2 him and carry the relation forward. Otherwise there is no need 2 carry on the relation with someone, with whom u r breakin now & then. Hope this satisfies ur question. Best of luck for ur relation!!!!!
2006-10-29 02:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by san_hoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to be very direct with your words, and stick with it. If you are truly happy now, then there is no reason for him to crawl back any longer if you simply don't give him reason to. It might mean this time that you change your phone number, change your locks...whatever. But tell him you are going to do so if he doesn't get the message. Ask him not to be in contact with you, as you have moved on. Be very direct. If he harrasses you, then let him know of restraining orders...but that's only if you have to take those measures.
2006-10-29 02:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not answer his calls and waste my time on him. He will get the message and good enough for him. If he comes to your house, do not let him in and tell him in your kind way that you have moved on and are happy now and to not come back around you.
2006-10-29 02:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've broken up "a million times" before.. then I'd say best not to answer, else you're liable to be manipulated into getting back together with him for the million and first time.
2006-10-29 02:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by ~moon~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him once,And tell him it's over,Don't call anymore and move on .I'm civil to everyone I never talk to And most of them I never met. You don't Have to courteous to be civil you don't have to be friends and don't give into temptation to call him.If you really want him gone,let him go don't look back move on with your own life time heals all wounds. And block his number so you won't be wondering about his calls,you'll just know he can't call leave it at that.
2006-10-29 02:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have one conversation with him (preferably on the phone) and inform him that if he ever contacts you again, you will be taking out a restraining order against him. Then do it if he decides to call your bluff.
2006-10-29 02:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ain't going to change no matter what he says.In the long run you will be happy without him.Tell him straight up you don't want him.If he keeps on calling you change your number.
2006-10-29 02:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful Fat Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know in a Stern voice that you have moved on and suggest he do the same.
2006-10-29 02:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the relationship is over and you are not going to open it again. If you want to, help him find another girl.
2006-10-29 02:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by jjc92787 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋