we have been together for a yr but he lives in l a and i live in las vegas what can we do to stop fighting we have never fought as much as we have the last month
2006-10-28 20:03:36 · 10 answers · asked by liliana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, there is a reason why you are fighting so much. you have to figure out what that reason is. did you two move far away from each other or something? has it been a long time since you saw each other? so, you have to find out what the problem is, then go from there. think about all the factors...
2006-10-28 20:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens alot at 1 year, it will probably decide the fate of the relationship, to keep it together takes alot of work, if both of you want that enough it can get through it. Whats happening is that the chemical responsible for sense of love is wearing off and your entering a more real attitude towards eachother, the chemical is responsible for starting relationships usually and lasts about a year.
2006-10-28 20:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting is a sign that you're too confused about your own wants, goals, direction, and purpose in life, to be in any sort of relationship with anyone. You should step back, take some time off, and figure out what you want and where you're going, on your own. And only if you both come up with compatible plans should you even consider getting back together. Most likely you won't even come close.
2006-10-28 20:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? do the two of you thrive on drama?
What was your background in your families. Do your family argue alot? Do you want to change it?
Life is too short to argue so much. If you get married it will jsut get worse.
Her is a great book called, The Dance Of Anger,
It saved my scanity
2006-10-28 20:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are like the sun and the moon and there is nothing you can do. You can not change by doing the same thing, try changing your respect for one another, listening to the other and if this does not work, better a broken relationship than a broken marriage.
2006-10-28 20:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that your courting works greater advantageous like this than it has ever labored in the previous. you're nearer and happier. you're nevertheless at the same time, only in a diverse way. How might you experience if it only stayed like this? you have got your independence, your baby might have consistency, and he might have a family that he of course cares approximately very a lot. Ask him if he might experience happy if this association maintains with you at the same time yet not residing at the same time. the only actual concern that i will see that's intercourse. you may desire to circulate with in case you would be unfastened to work out persons or not in case you do not have a sexual courting with one yet another.
2016-10-16 12:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either seek professional help together. Or stay together and keep fighting.
2006-10-28 23:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a small break from one another and see where it goes, absents makes the heart grow founder.
2006-10-28 20:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoke mary jane
2006-10-28 20:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think hes itchin for some nookie
2006-10-28 20:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by scotchvoice2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋