2006-10-28 19:16:35 · 22 answers · asked by gdgg g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you're okay with him choking the chicken to some raunchy Internet porn at home (after all he is 22), then 6 months is okay. Just don't be one of those frigid, ultra-conservative ice queens that expects a man to wait AND not rub one out every now and then.
2006-10-28 19:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Guys just want what they can get out of a girl. He is your Boyfriend........not husband. Just watch Maury and see what happens to many couples. Here today and gone tomorrow.
You don't want sexual disease if he has been or is being unfaithful after awhile and he might be moving on to be with others. (Sorry for the long sentence.)
IF he really cares, he will respect you. No sin, no shame. Don't feel pressured or anything. He will respect you a lot more .
Also, you may see things you don't really like about him later on. Maybe he is the one you might marry............but again, who really knows. You can be with someone a year or two and still not really know them deeply. They can talk the talk to make you Think they only love you or want you. Don't learn the hard way . You're young and people change.
2006-10-29 01:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by 4263 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 22 and my GF is almost 19 in a few days.... We've been together 1yr&9 months and waited to have sex 2 months is kinda long however if he loves you and has respect for you he will understand. But you don't have to (DO IT) but try other things like oral or playing with him to please eachother... So if you do sleep with him make sure your both cool with it and USE A CONDOM or at least be on birth control to pervent a little uh oh...
2006-10-29 01:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by nunesjeff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until YOU are totally ready. This is regardless of whether or not you are a virgin. Don't let him pressure you into it. If he can't wait until you're ready, then move on. If he doesn't respect you, then he's not worth dating. Trust me. And don't worry about what other people might think if you don't give it up right away. Your personal life is no one else's business anyway.
Good luck.
2006-10-29 01:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18, my guy is 17, and I will not have sex with him.
Not unless we know each other for long and we plan to marry, which I SERIOUSLY doubt at this early stage.
Girl, depend and trust only yourself.
Don't feel pressured, and don't pressure yourself throguh thinking about it the whole time. The point of a good relationship is to enjoy yourself, have fun, and you most certainly do not have to have sex in order to have fun.
2006-10-29 01:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you're not ready for. Follow your gut instincts in life and 99% of the time it won't steer you wrong. Unless your ready to face things like possible pregnancy, STD's and other things that could go along with it, I would wait.
2006-10-29 01:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you make him wait 1 year or 1 minute. What it matters is that he respects you and that you respect yourself. Don't do anything that you don't want to. Talk to him about what your feelings and thoughts about this issue are. If he is not going to respect you no matter how you feel about this issue, there is always going to be people that will respect you.
2006-10-29 01:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should make him wait until you feel ready, not a day before. If he's worth keeping, he'll respect you and give you the time you need.
2006-10-29 01:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by J 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to wait ... are you a virgin ... if so don't bang anyone until you are married or when you really want to ...
If you have banged before ... just bang him right away ... Understand if you don't stay with the first guy you banged you are a s'lut / whore...
I am a male and I consider myself a s'lut / whore with pride ... don't be worried about names just do what you want to do, before you are old and you regret not bangning all these hot young studs!
Most older women regret two things about sex, how they lost their virginty and the guys they could have banged, but rejected for vanity!
2006-10-29 01:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to do what is right for you. It wasn't so long ago that a man waited for marriage to have sex. Now, we feel obligated to have sex ASAP. Do what feels right and doesn't violate your personal moral code.
2006-10-29 01:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by tiffany_willis 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋